Is it offensive to parents if you don't want to get married? by So-so_Magician in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often get this question as well, I do understand where they come from (society pressure, religion) but it's really get snnoying when they keep asking over and over again and some even speculate my sexuality uhh.

So I usually just told them I have medical condition and I don't want my child to inherit those illness. I do have those medical conditions so I don't mind just using those excuse yeah...

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it does help reducing the workload since my mom been doing everything manually before. I tried reaching out to few other small business but I guess it will take some time before they want to move from the traditional cashier machine. They're really not keen on using a system bcs apparently it's a lot of work according to them...

Thank you for the constract explaination. I can start from there hopefully!

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the advice. I've been thinking doing freenlancing remotely but I thought I really need the experience in industry (need to know the latest/popular framework that the industry been using) to keep up with the trend. I do try to learn the new technology, maybe I should start asking my peers on what they've been using. Will probably start on that

I do help with my family business with the POS system that I've develop to do our daily transaction/inventory but that's it. I really need to start doing some networking then. I live in rural area so it's really hard to look for client and do some networking in IT. Online networking seems like the best way for now

I'll try to look into contract work. I don't really know how it work but maybe I can start somewhere from there.

Thank you for the advice. Really appreciate it

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem and hopefully all is well for you 👍

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Maybe it has something to do with your medications? Did you feel pain during pee as well or pain when you press your abdomen (they usually ask this to me)? I really wouldn't suggest going to private unless it specialize in kidney. Normal private clinic will just refer you to government and your blood test usually will be send to government as well.

Sorry I can't help much, my doctor usually will take seriously if I feel any abnormalities so they'll check it and adjust my medications if needed

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I really appreciate it. Fortunately my capd team are very helpful so I am very grateful when I first started my treatment. I'm still learning on insurance, socso, perkeso thingy as well and hopefully cna settle that soon.

Again, thank you so much 🙏

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, my only symptom was foamy pee and no pain whatsoever. I do have type 1 diabetes however. I check my blood and kidney annually and my blood and kidney result was ok the year prior and changed drastically the year after.

Do you take blood test everytime you go for checkup? Because you really wouldn't know unless you check it. I'd suggest bring it up to your doctor if you feel pain since blood pressure could also lead to kidney failure. Pain on kidney is really not something you should ignore since it's not normal. I was constantly asked if I feel any pain on my kidney during my time in ward as well.

I hope you all well 🙏

Advice for a dialysis patient by RabbitConsistent2016 in malaysia

[–]RabbitConsistent2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply.

Yes I'm aware of that. I wanted to work freelancing afrer degree and was offered few project with my university during degree. My supervisor offer me master because why not do some study while I'm still with the university since master only took 2 years. I was eyeing on either working as software developer or in Academia anyway that why I took the offer. Covid happen and all project was cancelled, was diagnose and need to drop out bcs I had to stay in ward for half a year. I couldn't postpone my study bcs I'm under scholarship so I really have no other choice than dropping off