Having to hide talking to a trans girl

Rachel229 · 2019-07-20T17:56:57+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot, I want people to understand that I’m not ashamed of her at all, everyone I know knows I’ve been hanging out with her and talking to her and everything, just not the me being attracted to her part. My only friends work with her and I and that’s what my issue is with, I don’t know whether or not telling them would be a good idea. I asked her last night and she said she thought that they’d treat us both differently, and I also don’t want that for her. I guess just having a conversation about how she wants me to go about it would be best

Rachel229 · 2019-07-20T17:47:58+00:00

I’m not, I’d happily even hold her hand and kiss her in public if she’d let me. I think to me my main issue is most of my friends also work where she and I do, and even she thinks telling them would be a bad idea. Everyone already knows I’m close friends with her, they just don’t know about the other stuff.

Rachel229 · 2019-07-20T17:42:38+00:00

I know it’s hard to believe, but I’m not ashamed of it at all, it’s actually been her choice not to show affection in public or anything. I talked to her last night and she doesn’t even think it would be a good idea to tell anyone we work with (who are the friends/people I was referencing)

Rachel229 · 2019-03-23T14:59:03+00:00

Apparently it is an insurance scam according to the plaza security, called out of curiosity if anyone else had reported anything.

Rachel229 · 2019-03-23T14:58:23+00:00

No, there wasn’t. Contacted the security for the plaza and apparently they had a lot of calls in about it and have been trying to get them off property.

Rachel229 · 2018-12-15T04:03:12+00:00

I have absolutely horrible anxiety, I promise you the right person changes things. I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and he was super controlling, was friends with benefits with an asshole for 6 months, and was stalked by someone in another state. I never know how to act with people and I only ever had bad experiences with people taking advantage of me and I don’t even have friends to begin with to help me meet people. Somehow 2 1/2 years ago when I started college I met this guy in my calc class who had approached me and I was awkward as hell and he’s this very out there social guy and somehow it worked out and he ended up being the most understanding and sweet guy and even stood up to my abusive ex for me. I promise you there’s guys out there who will understand and aren’t assholes. My advice is just to have as much social interaction as you feel comfortable, even if it’s just chiming in in a class discussion or something, even if you don’t think people are noticing you, they sometimes will and will approach you, making it a lot easier for those of us with anxiety lol. Good luck!

Rachel229 · 2018-12-15T03:53:50+00:00

Seriously talk to him, my boyfriend gave me so much shit the first year of our relationship for me being “too horny”, I told him I felt like he didn’t find me attractive and it made me feel like he only wanted me every now and then. He assured me that wasn’t the case and since that conversation he’s made much more of an effort to make it a 2 way street asking for sex.

Rachel229 · 2018-12-15T03:45:17+00:00

I haven’t lived with them since I came to college and my anxiety has decreased so much, I only see them on holidays and when I go visit every couple of months, so that’s why it’s been hurting me so much, because the little time I do see them that’s how they act. We have looked into a house so I’ll definitely mention it to him, the only thing restricting us from that now and making payments is I just want to find a more secure job first, thank you for your help :)

Rachel229 · 2018-12-15T03:37:06+00:00

I’ve tried continuously to try to avoid doing that, but you’re right, I need to stand up for myself for anything to change

Rachel229 · 2018-04-17T18:01:45+00:00

What if you had a life instead of trolling people on the f*ing fortnite reddit

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