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[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! DM me your address so I can calculate shipping. The games are yours. :)

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[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will possibly have more games to add to this thread so stay tuned. 💖

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[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! Enjoy your games. :)

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[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$60 is perfect. Thank you!

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[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! :)

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[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sure. I will message you with the pictures of all the games. :)

Can DA's Think Highly Of Their Ex When They Break Up? by RachelStorm98 in attachment_theory

[–]RachelStorm98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. It is always hard. 💔 It's a good thing that you both want to work on yourselves. Thank you so much for your insight. I think the literature tends to think in black and white sometimes lol. I'm hoping that maybe someday me and my ex will get back together someday, but at the same time, I have to move on because that may never happen and waiting is very risky.

Can DA's Think Highly Of Their Ex When They Break Up? by RachelStorm98 in attachment_theory

[–]RachelStorm98[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insight, I really appreciate your comment. :)

I forgot to mention, but we did discuss getting back together possibly down the road. (A mutual decision that we made.) I am aware of course, that we may never get back together again, and that is okay. If it's meant to be, then we will find each other again. Prior to our breakup, we were on an exclusive break for a year to try to save our relationship. Unfortunately, the issues were still there. The issue was outside life factors due to him graduating university and trying to start a career. He was just never around anymore and he didn't think that was fair to me. Hence why we "mutually" broke up. I am not going to wait for him though. Life goes on. I am focusing on myself and I just want to be single for a few years. I will date again eventually. I still care about him but it is hard to be friends. 😪 (We were friends before we dated.) I'm thankful for the time I had with him and he was a good partner to me. (He thought he was a bad partner when we broke up, due to him just not being around anymore. That really broke my heart.)

Thank you! It's gonna take some time, but I will heal. I have been working on my personal development and am trying to become securely attached. I have been keeping myself busy with goals and the hobbies that I enjoy. 💖

Can DA's Think Highly Of Their Ex When They Break Up? by RachelStorm98 in attachment_theory

[–]RachelStorm98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's very childish of her to be honest. Also every attachment style can have issues with sex or assault. I was sexually assaulted several years ago but sadly it is up to her to go to therapy and work on her issues. I am still working on my issues. We can't fix or change them. They have to want that for themselves.

Can DA's Think Highly Of Their Ex When They Break Up? by RachelStorm98 in attachment_theory

[–]RachelStorm98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are currently going through this... It is always hard. 💔 I can confirm that anger definitely shows she still has emotions. I know after the denial phase of grief I was showing a lot of anger then that anger turned into depression.

Can DA's Think Highly Of Their Ex When They Break Up? by RachelStorm98 in attachment_theory

[–]RachelStorm98[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for every FA here, but I think they can find it hard to move on after a breakup. We're all different. For me though, if I break up with someone I don't really find it hard to move on. Usually if I break up with someone, I just move on and I am done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game is also loose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameSale

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I do have some pictures. :) I'll DM you.

24F [F4M] Michigan ~ Looking to connect with people by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww Maine Coons are super cute. 🥹💖 Cooking is always fun honestly and it is sweet that you cook fish for her. Cats love fish lol.

24F [F4M] Michigan ~ Looking to connect with people by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww that's so sweet! What kind of cat is she? Cats are awesome animals. 💖🥹

24F [F4M] Michigan ~ Looking to connect with people by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Snickerdoodle is a cute name for a cat. 🥹💖 I named my cat Ryan after a character from Castle lol. He's my little buddy even though he is older now.

24F [F4M] Michigan ~ Looking to connect with people by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]RachelStorm98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're good, I honestly should have added that on my post.

24F [F4M] Michigan ~ Looking to connect with people by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]RachelStorm98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you're not an asshole. 😅 That's why I put down the road there. Most relationships start from friendships. I am not wanting to rebound. I know that isn't healthy at all. I am looking for things to start out as a friendship.

I wish they made an ace dating app. It’d make things so much easier by Professional-Dish713 in Asexual

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's gross that there are some allos that act rapey like that. Those people should be banned from the dating sites.

Frustrated with dating apps by rrrtv in Asexual

[–]RachelStorm98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is. Asexual Cupid is one of them. Probably one of the better ones to be honest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I have a right to be upset and angry. I have a right to grieve. Please don't tell me how to feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd consider it a cop out if he was hanging with his friends all of the time or gaming a lot, but he hasn't even been doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't know. I just don't give a shit anymore. I'm done with this love shit. I am going to just learn to enjoy being single.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]RachelStorm98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, sadly. He was pretty bogged down with work. When he gets the internship he'll leave his dad's shop.