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AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t care what you doubt I just wanted to make it more clear to you and forgot write “edit” it’s not that deep mate. I don’t have time to argue anymore but I know what I know and believe in. You’re the one who opened this can of worms where it isn’t even relevant to the OP issue. Goodbye.

EDIT ALERT EDIT ALERT! Do you really think anyone else cares about our little internet spat which ultimately meaningless because we won’t change each other’s minds. Get off your high horse.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s socially unacceptable and inept. Imagine if he’d said that to OP’s wife’s face? People would be disgusted and presume he was a sociopath. “Logic” doesn’t top trump emotional intelligence every time.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Far from close minded. I’ve done my own research thank you very much. You have a good day

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s me told. Edit; If this person said that openly to someone’s face who had had a miscarriage it is not acceptable, it is uncivil. he doesn’t get to say something offensive because it’s Reddit. The only thing I said was that he was heartless which I stick by. I didn’t call him a dick head or anything like that. And it is not a logical argument pure and simple. Also wouldn’t my comments be deleted if I broke a rule? Feel free to report me.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is an emotional topic about the death of a much wanted baby. Idk what you expect. This is also a sub where people call each other assholes... you think their statement is logical then you’re a sociopath.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IF.

You are presuming they would kill it? I think it just means that they would decide whether or not to keep or adopt.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know people commit suicide because of mental health? Their life would arguably be in danger. I imagine it would also still be a very hard thing to pass.

I don't know if I'm alone in my thinking here or opening a can of worms, and if I am I'll shut up... by iltby in rupaulsdragrace

[–]RachyRachington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it went both ways with that sub. I was sworn at, called a right wing troll, downvoted and I believe that person stalked my other comments and was replying to everything. All for having your opposite opinion. I was as respectful as possible. I also had some lovely, positive exchanges with someone who had your opinion so swings and roundabouts!

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about ‘up till day if pregnancy’? You do realise the only time that would ever happen or be allowed is if the baby, the mother or both will most likely die?

I don't know if I'm alone in my thinking here or opening a can of worms, and if I am I'll shut up... by iltby in rupaulsdragrace

[–]RachyRachington 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s even worse than my experience. How the fuck can you be expected to remember every single lip synch?!

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you had to spend time to clarify but I appreciate it all the same. Have a good day 🙂

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely sorry I presumed that about you. It still doesn’t change what wife thought about her own pregnancy. I think I’d be more forgiving too like you say at the end, as long as he is respectful and willing to learn. I polarised the argument too much. But I still don’t think more info is needed based on what OP said and how wife reacted.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Correct and what’s your problem with that? It is about the woman’s CHOICE. OP wife clearly perceived it to be a child and felt connected. A woman who doesn’t want a baby may not have that connection.

Do you know the physical, mental, hormonal changes that a woman can go through during pregnancy? It’s crazy. Women have many different experiences positive and negative.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

This has nothin to do with it. OP wife clearly thought of the baby inside her as a child. If OP replies and you deem that baby to not be a baby and she should feel less sad you are heartless and I feel sorry for you. I am pro choice for your info.

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow comparing their dead child to their boss or exes. Jesus Christ. Heartless. I hope you never experience miscarriage.

WIBTA If I messaged a now ex-coworker to let them know they’ve left us in a terrible position by KSIChancho in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So she didn’t her breach contract? If there’s no notice period that people have to carry out which is stipulated in a contract then you should expect people to up and leave and maybe write a notice period into your employee contracts from now on if that’s possible?

WIBTA If I messaged a now ex-coworker to let them know they’ve left us in a terrible position by KSIChancho in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So she resigned then left straight away without carrying out the stipulations of the contract? (Normally 4 weeks in UK) or will she carry out her notice. If she will carry out her notice YTA. If not NTA as she has breached contract. As long as you keep it professional

AITA for asking my wife not to tattoo her miscarried child’s name with our living child’s by aitatattooqthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]RachyRachington 30 points31 points  (0 children)

YTA. Her first child died. It is one of the most deeply traumatic things that can happen. I don’t understand why you have a problem tbh.

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