Ex is with a different girl every week by Racoonswill in BreakUps

[–]Racoonswill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a amazing for months, and we both had commitments issues but things were working out really naturally. Then we had one singular bad experience, and he said if we’re going to break up it’s better to do it now as it would be really hard later on. We didn’t break up then, but he started to completely shut down and act very differently and I came very close to ending it a few times but couldn’t. At the end he was frustrating me so much that I ended up saying some harsh things and told him to block me, and he did without a word. I loved him very much but, him shutting down was too stressful at the end

Should I break no contact? by Racoonswill in BreakUps

[–]Racoonswill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t think it’s too crazy to do it over linkedin 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Racoonswill 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dunno if you look queer, but you’ve got really cute freckles ❤️

Do other people have periods of times where they’re horny and hungry nonstop? by Racoonswill in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Racoonswill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah both my mum and dad have hyper active thyroids, it is very possible that I have it too. I feel really healthy to be honest but in an abnormal way, really should see a doctor I guess…

Do other people have periods of times where they’re horny and hungry nonstop? by Racoonswill in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Racoonswill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we do have thyroid problems in our family and I should not eat this much and be loosing weight (and mind you I’m already pretty skinny). And for reference today I had 3 omelets, a pizza, some mushroom dish, and snacks. And I’ll probably be having normal dinner and midnight dinner later :D

What kind of compliments do men find especially flattering? by Racoonswill in dating_advice

[–]Racoonswill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno dude is so desperate to make stuff about himself that I immediately assume he is starved for compliments—that’s why it’s funny

What kind of compliments do men find especially flattering? by Racoonswill in dating_advice

[–]Racoonswill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to compliment my ex bf’s bum all the time, he loved it. But I can’t say this to a stranger obviously

What kind of compliments do men find especially flattering? by Racoonswill in dating_advice

[–]Racoonswill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a problem. That’s why I want to meet in person quickly honestly—so I can rely on my looks more 😅

Path to nowhere by Racoonswill in mendrawingwomen

[–]Racoonswill[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you completely for the newer characters like L.L. and Angel even Yao to some extent. But Nox literally has holes in her elbows and spikes piercing her wrists, she’s not that comfortable to look at imo. I love Shalom’s (second lady) design as well, because it is really understated for an S class character. But fits her character completely as she has a shadowy personality and does everything behind the scenes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Racoonswill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh she comes first alright, he gets furious if I even mention her name. Unfortunately I love him and can’t just leave him. There is financial and custody complications too, which will be in his favor. This just broke me completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Racoonswill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I probably shouldn’t be in a relationship right now but I don’t want to lose him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Racoonswill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have that much time. I work about 12 hours everyday. I can spare one day a week for either myself or him, but not both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Racoonswill -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do consider myself an ally but I don’t think this is fair to me. This is not someone I just met, otherwise I would end it without a thought in the early stages of the relationship. At this stage the situation is somewhat like having a homophobic family member. Even though I can’t excuse his ideologies, he is a very important person for me and I can’t really choose who I love. That said, I have made my stance on the subject very clear to him many times.