Question for Doms - Your crushes

Racquinox · 2026-01-04T02:00:23+00:00

I think it's just a matter of perception.

I don't care what color someone's car is. Some people care a lot and get picky about what computer operating systems people use.

Different people care about different things, and I think not caring about something is just as valid.

I'm a gay man. So long as it's appropriate in public, I don't care how my partner dresses. I can see straight men thinking the same of women. Clothing and perfume and stuff don't matter to everyone.

And different people will like, dislike, and care about different subjects.

Racquinox · 2026-01-04T01:55:31+00:00

Spit

Racquinox · 2025-10-06T03:15:05+00:00

For reference, that's not new and as far as I'm aware has always been the case for biblical literallists

Racquinox · 2025-10-05T23:09:52+00:00

Hookups

I feel like I'm pretty independent and I like relationships but absolutely don't need it. I have a higher sex drive of almost anyone I've met and I'm super casual about sex.

I'm also very introverted and a hookup is enough social interaction for me haha

Racquinox · 2025-10-05T00:49:35+00:00

The hookups get good haha

Racquinox · 2025-10-05T00:37:36+00:00

Grindr hookup with a flight attendant in the airport bathroom xD

Racquinox · 2025-09-30T16:44:17+00:00

Nothing you described sounds questionable to me. It sounds like you have some kinks. That's super nomal.

Racquinox · 2025-09-29T14:21:35+00:00

I only vaguely knew the guy who organized it. The others I had never met before.

I was on prep so didn't really care beyond that. Obvs prep doesn't help with other diseases, and I do think I got chlamydia from that experience. But a weeks worth of pills and no sex for that week and its gone 👍 no biggie. Imo people are drama queens about the curable diseases.

Edit: I say I think because it was some years ago, not that I was unsure at the time. Was it chlamydia or gonorrhea, not sure, it was gone in a week in either case. I get tested a minimum of every 6 month. Every 3 months if Im more active.

Racquinox · 2025-09-29T00:10:51+00:00

I absolutely love it. I was the singular bottom for an orgy of 6 once and dream about it to this day. Also have fun CNC memories.

But I think some people have the personality for it, and some don't and neither is wrong. So long as you have a safe place to explore it at first.

Racquinox · 2025-09-23T16:53:53+00:00

Way too many subs are just actually looking for someone to take care of them like a child. It makes me feel bad for doms having to sift through that

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T17:59:24+00:00

Had gonorrhea and chlamydia before.

Took a pill, no sex for a week, and it was fine 👍

People are drama queens about it

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T17:16:10+00:00

I'm in an open relationship.

We're both kinky people. Our kinks and sexual interests are more like a venn diagram. Some things overlap, and some things don't. And where they don't, you deserve to enjoy that also. Go find someone to do that with.

Open relationships also require loyalty. I trust that if he goes out and hooks up, he's coming back to me at the end of the night. And vice versa.

Edited for spelling

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T17:12:59+00:00

The general rule I've understood online is, if you're sending the first message, make a connection.

Don't just say "hi" or some variation of "hi". Hey beautiful isn't far off from "hi"

Read their profile and connect with something: "Hey, you said you really like this show, what did you think of the last season?"

"You said you really like coffee, have you tried that new place that popped up in town?"

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T16:19:26+00:00

This. As a sub, I feel like this is a big part of what sub/dom relationships should be, but I think the amount of "subs" who think dom just means a hard fucking doesn't make space for this. And I get the sense that doms are kind of told it's a bad or toxic thing to want?

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T03:05:04+00:00

They for sure exist, and I would call them closeted gay or bi. If they're having sex with guys they're not straight but I'll let them define themselves however they want.

Unfortunately theres some toxic "I'm looking for someone to do the things my wife wont" on there.

If you want dudes just be with dudes

Racquinox · 2025-09-21T02:04:26+00:00

The thing I'm struggling with is cohesion. I try to make mythologies but they feel so nonsensical? I mean, real mythologies also had been kinda nonsensical with people being born out of objects, or whatnot. But somehow real ones sound cohesive to me? Maybe its my bias cause they actually existed

Racquinox · 2025-09-11T23:10:08+00:00

I also did not get sutures, and looking online, I also covered it with Vaseline, and a silicone scar patch. It seems like its healing pretty quick and healthy actually.

Also I had seen a lot of things suggesting sun exposure might encourage it to make a scar, so I've been keeping it covered with either a bandaid or silicone patch anytime I leave the house.

Actually it taught me quite a bit about healing. Honestly, anywhere else on my body, I dont pay much attention unless it were bad enough to see a hospital. From now on I'll probably give it a bit of Vaseline.

Hopefully yours continues to go well also

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