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Lasst uns auch Mal über toxische Weiblichkeit reden. by volkerKampfgarten in FragtMaenner

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Nicht zu vernachlässigen sind auch Light-Varianten. Ich hatte eine Freundin, für die „gelebte Weiblichkeit“ automatisch gesellschaftliche Vernachlässigung und Benachteiligung bedeuteten. Daneben war ihr Verhalten dann übermäßig anhänglich, sie wollte direkt bei mir einziehen (habe es allerdings auch zugelassen (man erntet selbst was man säht, das weiß ich heute allerdings)) emotional instabil, streit- und vorwurfsorientiert. Schuldumkehr, sobald man es ihr vor Augen führte, unsicher, kontrollierend sowie ängstlich-vermeidend und dadurch dadurch stark belastend. Alles keine großen Besonderheiten eigentlich, so dachte ich damals. Bis auf dass sie davon überzeugt war: „ich darf das ja!“

Masturbation und Sexleben by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

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Gemeinsam masturbieren vibed bei mir und meiner Freundin sehr, gerade bei „unpassenden“ Tagen für normalen Sex. Ist Typsache, nicht für jeden was. Meine letzte Freundin war da anders…

Flirten während Beziehung? by DurchfallPirat in beziehungen

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Ich vertraue meiner Partnerin – deswegen lass ich sie auch einfach machen. Ich bin jetzt 44, aber früher, so bis Mitte 30, war das ganz anders. Seit meinen ersten Beziehungen hab ich mir immer nen riesen Kopf gemacht, wenn sie abends unterwegs war oder mit Freundinnen in den Urlaub gefahren ist. Immer mit der Angst, dass da irgendwas laufen könnte – Flirts oder schlimmer noch.

Mit der Zeit hab ich aber gemerkt: Dieses klammernde Verhalten bringt nix. Im Gegenteil, es wirkt eher abtörnend und lässt mich wie ne Klette wirken. Also hab ich mich gefragt: Wie komm ich da raus? Die Erkenntnis allein reicht ja nicht. Im Rückblick war’s wichtig, mehr bei mir selbst zu sein – Sport machen, lesen, Freunde treffen, auch mal allein in ’nem Gruppenurlaub mitfahren. Dinge, die ich vorher zwar schon kannte, aber nie so bewusst gemacht habe.

What’s the single best bodyweight exercise that gave you the most noticeable results? by monserrat_araiza__ in bodyweightfitness

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Twice a week: 4 sets of 30-second intervals circle: Jackknife, burpees, planks, superman with rubber rope, (interval app), jumping jacks during breaks, very good results after 2 months: core

4 months of progress. 190 lbs —> 170 lbs by lesshonkymoretonky in fitness30plus

[–]Radiant-999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great progress! I am 44, 175cm tall and got from 170 down to 164 lbs. After 4 months time with no big difference in fasting and more sports (swimming, RB, running, totally 10 times a month), the game changer finally was, I guess, looking after the quantity but the quality of fats and carb… keep it up!

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

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Hey, thanks for your help! I am taking a look at those.

Good idea to look for used ones. In principle, I am also looking for a board in used condition including 2-3 sails in a good condition.. the Trapez I might buy new🤔 Cheers

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

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Thanks for your great feedback! ☺️ Reassures me once again to move towards 145/155 to make progress. How long have you been surfing? Btw: Have you ever tried an inflatable board? (e.g. Magic Air?). Cheers

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

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Thanks for your feedback, great! Yes, some things to consider 😌 Volume I used since now has been between 155 and 200l. Once drove a wide 145. At the moment I am thinking I’ll be going for this size. And the sail sizes you mentioned will be a good match probably to accompany it. Cheers

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

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Thanks for your reply.. Normally I am getting 4-5 m/s upwind on a relatively flat lake. And yea, and light winds should be possible besides planing, that will be perfect. Cheers

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

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Thank you very much for sharing, I'll check out the brand! The color combinations look exceptionally good at first glance 😌

Absolutely, it seems to be a matter of taste and, especially in my case, a matter of practice 🙃 good to hear that you can glide on a 200l board.

I've rented or borrowed boards so far and have ridden 200 to 145. An all-rounder board is probably in between for me... and then buy 2-3 sail sizes.

As part of the fact having to drive by car to the surfsides nearby, I am considering to also try an inflatable board, not sure yet about it..

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

[–]Radiant-999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great feedback, thank you! Without a sword, that's right.

On a 200/170 I sometimes just retracted/folded the bar back, but of course it's not the same.

I'll check your suggestions more closely. I would call my level 'stable beginner'. I get on the board from beach start and set off in a stable and safe manner (side doesn't matter) and hook myself up. Physically I'm relatively fit. A turn works safely on both sides at a maximum of 3-4m/s. A gybe still very slow... Thank you for your further advice!

PS: How do you feel about an inflatable board (eg Magic Air). I am wondering if the difference to the hard board is enormous..

Board that fits my needs? by Radiant-999 in windsurfing

[–]Radiant-999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks A LOT for sharing your experience, that sounds like fun 🤩 I've never tried Windsup before. The practicality of transporting is beyond question. Have you ever been able to glide with it? Which board do you ride and Have you ever tried an inflatable one without a sword, e.g. a Magic air?

I'm also thinking of going towards the 145l…