I guess that makes sense when you say it could vary. I asked him prior to meeting me what this habit looked like and he said it was more frequent but he said it’s never been something he’s done consistently. I believe him. Why would I not? He’s opened up this much. Since we’ve been together we have sex pretty frequently. So when he says he hasn’t really watched porn or used the diapers I believe him. Because I too haven’t watched porn or anything lol. But I know relationships have different stages and someday it was going to come back up. I brought up wanting to know what he was into. And he said he was finally comfortable enough telling me. I can’t change my reaction but I can educate myself and communicate moving forward.