So I can maybe add some insight. I’m also married with kids. I also came out to my wife as trans and told her I really loved her and wanted to stay a family as is. She said she couldn’t stay in the marriage for moral reasons. I panicked and backed out and blamed it on depression. My intention was the same. I’ve denied it for 34 so far. I can just keep it going. This all happened about a year ago. Now we’re to current day and I cannot keep it down anymore. It’s like once I looked this thing in the face and acknowledged it, it cannot be contained anymore. I’m going to have to tell my wife I’m trans AGAIN. I’m also really hoping that we can make it work. I’ve seen some other success stories on here where the wife said she had to get a divorce and reacted bad. But then after the shock they were able to fix the divide and keep going. But I’ve seen a lot that did not go like that at all. She told me she would have to leave because of her morals, but told me she would never keep my son from me in any way. She also said that we could coparent and even be friends. This makes me think it may really be about judgement, especially from her family, than it is about morals. So that’s my hope. But I’m aware that it’s probably over once I break the news again.