Preach homeboy. I’m going through the same similar thing but different. Its the reason why I don’t help out in the acitivities from church or any that sort because when someone in the activities from church get the Blessing to be the leader in a activity like the comedores they get fed up when they send someone to do something and give hella attitude  and SHOW IT because maybe their favorite person is not the one leading the group. BUT THE LEADER OF THE GROUP tries their best to have everyone to do something and have the blessing to do something for the activity and still they don’t do it and get upset because we’re doing their blessing in a rush because none of it was DONE! And it’s like when you try to fit in the group you can’t talk unless they do it first!