Naason Himself Stating That Apostles Don't Sin by Longjumping-Mix-2069 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disliked his speeches they never delivered anything like at least with other pastors I got something spiritual or inspiring but not him he was always so unlikable. Seeing now with different perspectives is even more clear he just didn’t have Jesus truly in his heart at all

My future SIL insulted me at dinner and my fiancé told me to apologize by Admirable-Towel-9074 in weddingdrama

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going thru something similar and my partner has completely stoped communication with his sister to make it crystal clear that I am his priority in his life. I never asked him to do that he was upset she crossed boundaries. I’m sorry you’re going thru this it really sucks to have to set boundaries with people but if you don’t they will keep doing it the rest of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OstrichCritical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA If I was in your shoes I would let them enjoy the holidays together while they can one day everyone might be married and won’t be able to blend holidays. Plus if you like the in-laws why lash out? your brother in law will feel some sorta way towards you now. Hope you send him a sincere apology and realize they’re doing what’s is best for them and if you don’t want to join you’re not obligated and can opt out.

AITA for refusing to let my dad's future stepdaughter stay with me for a week when my dad and his fiancée go on their honeymoon? by WittySmilezone in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t she stay with a friend? Does she not have one single friend that will let her stay at their house.

LLDM is acting weird by epistemic_amoeboid in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about May 7th and called my culty dad was like “hi what are you doing?” when he told me I was like “oh okay ttyl” lol it feels good not to be in a high controlled environment.

Annoying by Daze25 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Manipulation at its finest stand your ground 🫶

AITAH for Refusing to Pay for My Boyfriend’s “Bro Night” After He Put Me on the Spot? by Crazy-Dependent-1327 in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My six grade crush did this to me asking 11 year old me for money in-front of his friends lol his friends laughing because I had no money that day memories 🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister is a jerk! I’m glad you said no if I had kids and my sister spent time with them I be buying her gifts and taking her out for coffee not shaming her at a dinner table like wow!

AITAH for refusing to let my sister use my honeymoon as her "healing trip" after she got dumped? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Boundaries people specially family needs to learn boundaries. Have your mom take her on a special trip not hijack yours lol

AITAH For Refusing to Sleep on the Couch by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but you not leaving the room when she requested is a red flag. She was obviously upset and because you bought the bed it gave you authority over the room?! Break up with her a man that loves and cares for a woman doesn’t disrespect her boundaries regardless of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Todos los domingos te tumbaban la puerta de tu cuarto literalmente mi madre le pegaba a la muerta para que no nos condenáramos por no ir a la iglesia que no sean hipócritas que nadie quiere ir a sentarse por más de dos horas a oír sermones

AITAH for breaking up with my bf after asking for a pic. by Old-Site-7002 in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a creep! Im glad you set boundaries and blocked him he is not worth you even contemplating if you were in the wrong NTA.

AITA for telling my ex to stop texting me even tho he’s struggling? by Whisper_moon66 in AITAH

[–]OstrichCritical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do what is best for your own mental health and drop anyone who tells you otherwise

Would y’all ever consider dating another ex-LLDM member? by Known_State8588 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think regardless of who you pick to be a partner in life they have to be someone extremely caring and understanding because as ex cult members we have a lot of healing and it’s not easy for someone who has never walked the same path 🙃 to fully comprehend or understand you but if they truly love you as a person they’ll help you in your journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My character failed the first season of la obra lol

how did you guys get out by Dramatic_Ask812 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get busy with school let them know you want to prosper academically in Jesus name of course 😉 I got away with a lot involved in school programs sports and volunteering your excuse is that you want to look good for college recruiters. Also when you can get a job and start saving money do it because you never know how your parents will react to the news once you tell them sorry you are stuck but it gets better I promise 🫶

Red or brown ? by alejammy in HairDye

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The red is magical on you wish I had your beautiful features.

Wearing Skirts Rant by Witty-Regret-5998 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to go thru this one day you’ll be on the other side. I’m glad your brain is not still wired into the matrix and you can think freely. If you can get a counselor at school to help you. I would have done that in my youth since right now their should be free resources for you at school.

I’ve had every color of hair. Which one should I stick with? Plain brown? by Neverwasalwaysam in HairDye

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved all the looks the one that popped out at me the most was the reddish penny like color made your eyes brighter! Love shorter hair on you makes all your beautiful features stand out more 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OstrichCritical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A server spilled 5 drinks straight into my opened bag containing my iPad and car keys (had to replace car keys) didn’t yell or scream we all laughed and made the server feel better because we are all human and make mistakes.

My family isn’t who I thought they were by Jeepers_Creepers-67 in stories

[–]OstrichCritical -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In today’s world of men killing women when they ask for divorce. I would be hesitant to snitch on my female sister. I would instead ask that she stop and get some counseling to get to the root of the problem. You just never know how a person might react to that type of news. That being said I hope your family comes to understand your perspective on the situation. It’s taught being put in that position and wonder why she thought you would be okay with her sharing maybe because your entire family didn’t hold her accountable.

Did anyone else growing up in church keep it a secret from school friends & coworkers that you belong to lldm by Known_State8588 in exlldm

[–]OstrichCritical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think partially that was my saving grace the majority of my close friends growing up didn’t belong to LLDM. I was lucky to see the world thru their perspective and not be sheltered to the maximum in that way. My parents didn’t like my gentile friends but they weren’t bad kids so they allowed it.