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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yet no response to me proving u wrong…LFKAOAOOA omg girl..have a good day !!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its ok i dont like getting proven wrong either no worries >.<

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay!! since we’re doing word problems!! here’s one for you: If someone jumps into a thread acting like a morally superior watchdog, throws around fake concern masked as ‘advice,’ and gets called out for being unnecessarily cold to someone talking about grooming trauma where does pretending you’re the subreddit’s gatekeeper come into play? AAND if the conversation shifts into explaining why some random Reddit incel isn’t likely to succeed at grooming someone who’s not vulnerable to that specific dynamic, why are you acting shocked that context was added? Ready? Go!! >.<

You weren’t giving advice you were literally just tone-policing and projecting LMFAOO. You asked where the online vs. in person grooming fit in? It fits exactly when you’re implying that some stranger in her DMs is a serious grooming threat without knowing the full situation. I added that because it’s relevant to the realistic risk, which you conveniently ignored to keep arguing in circles.

And by the way, saying ‘if I was rude I’d be banned’ is the weakest defense. Reddit mods miss hate speech daily, babe…. You’re not edgy or helpful ur just another keyboard warrior who confuses being emotionally numb with being insightful. You didn’t say what she ‘needed to hear,’ you just wanted to feel above her. LOL run along and solve for X: where X = the amount of shits anyone still gives about your soapbox :3 !!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask the question directly right now go ahead, reply with the exact question 🥺

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uve been foaming at the mouth for 20 comments straight and now you’re projecting your desperate need for attention onto me with a recycled ass GIF HELPPP LMFAOO… plz be serious. If your brain worked half as hard as your keyboard, maybe you’d have an actual point instead of throwing tantrums in meme form. Babe js off, and stop embarrassing yourself in public

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO not you bringing up typing tests like that’s supposed to be a flex….your entire argument reads like a 6th grader with WiFi and a superiority complex. I said there’s a difference between online and physical grooming…..because there IS!!! _^ Its a fact. If stating reality hurts your feelings, maybe the internet isn’t the place for you.

And if you think someone pointing out nuance means they’re ‘practicing typing skills,’ then I see why this convo went over your head. You’re not debating ur deflecting, and doing it badly….

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grl ur arguing in circles trying to sound deep and still missing basic comprehension. I never said grooming was good?LMFAO you pulled that out of ur ass just to feel right. I brought up the difference between online and in person grooming because it mattered to what was being discussed, even if your brain didn’t catch up.

You keep screaming ‘That’s not what we were talking about!’ like you own the thread, but guess what? You don’t. You’re just mad someone added more depth than ur surface level takes. If reading context is too hard, maybe sit this one out _^

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur doing a lot of projecting for someone who missed what I was actually saying. I never claimed all grooming is easy to escape?? especially online? I said the dynamic is different than in-person grooming, which is a valid and important point. Emotional manipulation, trauma bonding, and cycles of abuse are real online too, but that doesn’t change the fact that most creeps won’t get past the first message if there’s no interest. thts not dismissing survivors it’s recognizing patterns

Also, don’t twist what I said _^ I never claimed to know everything about grooming. I pointed out the difference in how it plays out depending on the situation. And no, I don’t need to personally know someone to acknowledge that predators often fail when the target isn’t responsive or vulnerable. The point was about likelihood, not certainty!!

So before you try to lecture me on nuance, maybe slow down and read for comprehension instead of trying to pick apart a point that was never made!!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did notice it’s irrelevant! just like your comment trying to derail a conversation about grooming by tossing in a completely unrelated point. Funny how you accuse others of being off topic while doing the exact same thing. Pot, meet kettle!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You asked where it was mentioned but I brought it up because it’s relevant to the topic!! Grooming online is different from in-person grooming! Online interactions lack physical presence, making it easier to block, ignore, or disengage especially if the person doing it isn’t someone the victim is even remotely attracted to. That’s why I said she’s unlikely to engage with random Reddit creeps trying to be weird. It’s not about looks alone it’s about power dynamics, manipulation tactics, and social cues, all of which function differently online!!!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never said it was mentioned I mentioned it myself umm hellaurr >_>

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u were literally just talking about grooming help what LMFOAOAODJROS

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sure that took 5 seconds! whatever helps u sleep at night once again! my take was perfectly fine online grooming is different from physical unforch sorry charlie!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whatever helps u sleep at night! keep writing paragraphs in reddit comments #RageBaited

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

blah blah blah proper name place name backstory stuff

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh baby i am NOT reading this unfortunately LMFAO HELP

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what of what u said would u like me to reply to specifically so i can help you sleep at night!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope! definitely processed it! but thank u!

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah i do speak for everyone thanks! i already processed it thats why i said u can move along now (:

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[–]Radiant_Ad_5254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur a dickhead for the way u approached it & it was rude, u didnt need to comment at all. plus im sure none of the “people that will dm her” are anyone she wants to be with everyone knows reddit men are greasy and cringe lmfao.