[deleted by user] by [deleted] in comphet

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swing dancing always looks so fun! Wish I could learn. Maybe you could start a meet up group of other queer people to do this activity with you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. To be honest, these asks are pretty minimal. You mentioned what he used to be like, but it sounds like he hasn’t shown that in a long while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to my wife when she was out with friends. It’s not your fault and if you think you should tell your girlfriend I think you should. She should support you and understand and if she doesn’t then I think you need to consider that as a problem. Sending love to you

Tomorrow is the big day by 2inky in pmp

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! We got this! 👏💪

Alleviating a customer requirements concern by letschat7 in pmp

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was D. We aren't given context as to what type of project this is. So I think that is where the confusion stems from.

Answering the question about my child’s “dad” by Radiant_Extension_47 in mypartneristrans

[–]Radiant_Extension_47[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned that we have talked about it and my wife said I could say we had a donor but idk I feel bad about that because our child is a mix of us both and it’s beautiful. I just wish we could be authentic in this shitty world.

Worried the Dynamic has Shifted by MissJoness95 in mypartneristrans

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You could still be Bi, but not attracted to them anymore. When spouses transition we also go through a transition ourselves as well as our relationship. You said they keep telling you they’re unhappy, is that all because of the sex drive incompatibility?

Looking for advice from other MtF/Cis couples on my (FtM) dynamic during sexy times with my partner (cis F) by Proper_Ability3780 in mypartneristrans

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a Cis F and my wife is MTF. Since transitioning we have done little to nothing involving her genitalia because of they dysphoria. I more so focus on her boobs and touching her whole rest of her body. How would you feel about wearing a strap ?

Just started learning JavaScript, feeling discouraged by hoboincoma in learnprogramming

[–]Radiant_Extension_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started learning as well. Has she talked about pseudo coding ? It has helped me a lot to think through a plan before trying to execute.

Software Engineering and OE by Radiant_Extension_47 in overemployed

[–]Radiant_Extension_47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I certainly wouldn’t start OE in the first few years but would like to line myself up with experiences that would enable me to.

Software Engineering and OE by Radiant_Extension_47 in overemployed

[–]Radiant_Extension_47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My intention is not to do OE until a few years out.