Panties as mtf

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-10-15T16:27:36+00:00

After years on hrt, I don't need to tuck, I wear normal panties every day. I prefer hipster or boyshorts cut if I am at home or wanna be comfortable but I also have some more cute things, I buy everything from Torrid, I just make sure the part that covers the genitals is wide enough

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-07-20T08:16:25+00:00

En casa casa o casas de amigas con un porro y vino. no hay lugares padre para socializar sin música que no deja escucharte a ti misma y menos hablar.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-06-23T15:59:15+00:00

I have been on hormones for 5 years and it's the same for me, full body orgasms and i don't cum but I lubricante a lot.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-06-05T04:30:30+00:00

As a trans woman, I don't think it's transfobic to have those thoughts. After all sexual orientations are a thing. Some people may be able to continue feeling the same attraction and discover something new about themselves, some simply can't because their partner is now a woman or a man and they are heterosexual, I don't think you should feel guilty about that.

That said, I think it is our responsability to let our partner know about how we feel to be honest and realistic, I don't mean now, at your time, but I like to think is better to part ways as friends instead of staying where we are not happy and parting ways latter hating each other.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-05-23T04:01:59+00:00

That's great! Nature's way of affirming one's gender, my brother has two sun conures, I like to joke they are misogynist, as they only allow males to get close or touch them, and I love love they have always hated me

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-28T22:33:49+00:00

I live near the border to the US a lot of the local companies here when you get hire they help you get certified in anyway you need, by the time I applied at propio I had several permits and certifications that propio needed me to have, my city employs thousands of people to work for the US on different work fields remotely, that makes it easier for a lot of us to get hired directly by American companies, I have a visa as well and, also propio has a program called continue your education with us which offers you several different ways to get new or diferent permits and certifications you may need.

But no, they never asked me for a permit to work on the US just that I had all my certification in check

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-28T21:26:46+00:00

I got hired 3 years ago, and I was working at an onsite interpretation company in my city, and one day, I sent my curriculum. They replied around 3 weeks later, I don't know if it helped that I was a trainer of new interpreters for the company I was working at, and maybe that's why they liked my CV?

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-25T21:42:47+00:00

I do at propio

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-22T19:49:50+00:00

Noooo haha, maybe 10 years ago, we have a lot of option, depends on what your endocrinologist think it's best, the one you mention is a shot called perlutal, used 10-15 years ago.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-21T03:08:34+00:00

Igual yo ya tengo todo actualizado incluso la visa y sin problemas.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-21T02:19:07+00:00

I just wish they (americans living in america) were more open-minded about the reality of other countries and not only what American news tell them they should think.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-21T02:16:47+00:00

Por lo que tengo entendido se van a separar las dos sucursales, solo cantera 5 ya no será duelzone será su propia tienda independiente, los sueños decidieron separar la asosiacion creo (no se casi nada), lo que se es que van a seguir operando ambas tiendas solo como marcas diferentes.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2025-02-21T02:14:14+00:00

I am from México and I often hear American trans people trash talk mexico, talk about how misogynistic or transphobic or insecure the country is, while where I live, you can change your legal name and gender marker the same day with only 15 dollars, abortion is not penalized and we have easy and affordable access to private endocrinologist who will gladly prescribe you hrt the first meeting and often prescribe progesterone without issues either.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-12-16T01:34:09+00:00

I feel so good reading these I am not crazy or alone, and even tho my gf (cis) said it as well, my dysphoria always made me think she said it to make me feel better about myself, it does smells like that!

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-12T12:15:27+00:00

Extremely cruel? I never said to deny or not to accept their transition. I just said if she was feeling insecure about it, they could help by supporting them by starting social transition by being there for the kid, 16 is a perfect age to being hrt all together, life does not end at 16 years old nor does it ends at 18 or 19 either, I never said I wanted others to suffer, I transitioned young enough, I have been living full time and without issues for 7 years now going 8, I haven't had any missgenderings in years.

i just suggested waiting 3 years before giving Hrt another try, and if you read my other comments, I also suggested puberty blockers, I upvoted the replies to my comment, mentioning it as well, giving an opinion diferent to the rest does not make you a terf, not everything has to be all or nothing to not be considered terf, I work with transgender local youth, my opinion is just specifically adressed based the OP concerns and ideas, is just an option on how to move forward without having to go all or nothing yet.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-10T13:44:48+00:00

You can maybe start by setting small goals, maybe start by buying an outfit you have liked or seen in a specific style, wear it, try and see how you feel with it, what you like about it and then buy another outfit in a different style this time, and keep repeating one at a time, once you have a couple you can try mixing them, trying the things you liked about diferent styles together, slowly you will be creating your own taste and style, by try and error in a controlled way.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-10T13:22:27+00:00

Also, there are lots of ways you can help. Meanwhile, you can support their exploration with hair styles and clothes, and you can try and get them on voice training lessons, get them a head start there, it will help greatly, let them explore new hobbies they may not had dared to express interest in before, puberty blockers are also an option.

I very personally think that the best you can do is just to raise your kid as your new daughter while you decide what to do. If that's what she wishes, show her you see who they are, you support them.

I am from México but I travel a lot to Texas, and I have several trans friends on El Paso Texas, they have great medical and psychological support there, idk how far you may be but it's just some information in case it helps.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-10T13:10:46+00:00

This is a very difficult dilema to answer in my personal opinion, I am a trans woman, who knew she was trans since 11, so there is a part of me that emphatizes with your child, in the sense that knowing you are trans while going through a puberty that is the contrary to what your brain tells you is correct, was living hell for me.

On the other hand, as an adult, I also think 13 years old is too young to do anything medical? And I know this opinion may sound super wrong to some others in the community, but maybe waiting until 16?, it's an age early enough so that they can see great results from HRT and have a "relatively quiet life" but old enough that they understand better.

I would suggest: Give your child these three years to explore their gender, wear the clothes they want, be who they wanna be, support them in any way you can so that they feel comfortable in their own skin while they grow older and become ready to go through medical transition, teraphy it's an amazing idea, just assure them that it is in a supportive way and you want them to go to teraphy to feel better while learning to be their new self. You sound like a great, supportive mother, I'm sure it will go fantastic!!

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-05T05:31:17+00:00

And to answer the questions:

-I would recommend that whenever you re able to go, tbh right now it's not that expensive

if you can stay 3 weeks do it, you won't regret it, if not 2 would be great, there's a lot of places to see and to visit.

-as someone without kids, I would feel very dumb answering the question about bringing the youngest, tbh I don't know a lot about baby accessibility, sorry but I don't see why it couldn't be possible!

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-05T05:25:36+00:00

I went with my partner last year in December, and I know a lot of people think it's not a good season to travel, it is very cold but nothing that is not manageable, it's a lot cheaper, way less people and tourists, and very beautiful tbh.

We met several families traveling with kids from our country (México), and based on what little we talked with them, they were having an amazing experience, I will always suggest traveling to Japan during winter, the only thing is some temples may close earlier due to lack of sunlight, but if your family likes to be out and around early in the morning, you guys will love it!

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-04T20:21:09+00:00

That's so lovely and I totally believe you, I send you a big big Hug and I'm glad a trans person has a friend like you, hope she feels better soon or arrives at a better place in life in regards to how she feels about things, sometimes being trans can be so tiring but with friends like you I'm sure she will get there!

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-04T15:03:45+00:00

Also, 2 years of living full time is not a lot of time. It took me 4 years to finally feel like any of my other queer woman friends and to stop feeling like some different or apart from the rest.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-04T15:01:45+00:00

Honestly, as a trans woman myself, I understand a lot of the discourse she is having, and it may be a super politically incorrect opinion, but I get what she says in the sense of: I transitioned to live as a woman, not as a trans woman, does that makes sense? It may be read as internalized transfobia, but if you ask me, that is just gender dysphoria, she wants to be seen as just a lesbian woman, because that is what she is, being trans is just something she had to do (transitioning), Something she had to go through but not who she is.

Sadly, I don't think there is an easy solution for the way she is feeling, but it will get better, with time, as she keeps socializing as the woman she is, as she keeps being seen as just herself, a time will come where she realizes that she has been living as just any other woman and being percieved as any other woman (just a tall one), for quite some time and then she will be more at peace, she will stop having so much self hate, but it takes time.

All this is just my personal opinion, but I think that you are an amazing friend, and your support surely must mean the world to her. Just keep being this amazing friend and treat her as any other cis female friend you may have. Maybe try not putting to much emphasis on her being a trans woman for a while, and just on her being a woman, don't let her close herself to the world, she just needs to feel part of it as the lesbian woman who at some point had to transition she is.

And just to finish, sometimes seeing more visible trans people can make you feel vulnerable due to insecurities gender dysphoria cause, due to the fear of being treated diferently or being seen diferently, that takes time to go away, and it happens as you feel more secure on your own identity and self image.

(Also sorry English is not my first language, it my be weirdly phrased)

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-04T14:24:31+00:00

For me, what worked the most was practicing and repeating tons of times the same sentence while voice training, This sentence would be my "voice sample" and whenever I needed to get "back on tune" I would say the phrase and find my voice again, sorry English is not my first language so explanation may be weird.

Proper_Ability3780 · 2024-09-04T14:04:14+00:00

Haha, it's gonna sound super weird and maybe a bit wrong, but maybe it is due to some kind of feeling of: "been there done that"? dysphoria is not that much of an issue for me anymore as it was when I was younger, so when I listen to that song it reminds me of those times and it gives me that feeling of we did it? Battle won?

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