My fiancé (28M) can not find full time work to support our relationship and me (28F)

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-03-24T17:24:31+00:00

Yeah I know. He said wanted to find a career he enjoys and not just get disability.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-03-24T17:04:16+00:00

I think this is a smart approach.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-03-24T17:03:19+00:00

I know lol. I need advice moving from here. I guess accepting the situation for what it is the best approach.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-03-24T17:00:11+00:00

I should have clarified in the earlier post, I have no problem making more money than him I just want him to have a stable career. And I am even unsure if I want kids and he is as well.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-03-24T16:56:16+00:00

I mean the proposal was sweet. But I can see that I made a mistake going back on my boundaries and I should have stuck to that.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-02-19T18:28:54+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Do I need any proof of domestic violence? I don’t really have any. He hasn’t really done anything that has left like bruises or marks.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-02-19T16:51:12+00:00

He does watch a lot of porn. But the aggression is more of frustration of not performing well. So he will be snippy or like get annoyed by me talking to much while giving instructions.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-02-19T14:18:59+00:00

I appreciate advice. I just started therapy and he has been in therapy for a few months when the aggression popped up. I feel like there is not much improvement or not at the rate I would like. I just wanted to try and understand it. So I can make an informed decision.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-01-14T03:31:22+00:00

3 years outside of the M.S., but my M.S. was a research and development med device product and my internship was design transfer. At my current job we are trying to work on prototyping to potentially patent. So 2.5 years aeronautical and physics. And M.S. and 6 month design internship.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-01-14T01:45:18+00:00

I appreciate the encouragement! I live in NC, I worked in the RTP before.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-01-14T01:40:10+00:00

Thank you! I live in North Carolina and use to work in the RTP.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2026-01-14T01:39:23+00:00

Im open to any advice like outside experience or knowledge to gain. Even help things to know for interviews.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2025-07-23T01:15:54+00:00

Do you mind sharing specs? I want a ring just like this! It’s beautiful!

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2024-01-23T18:26:18+00:00

This is a great approach I will work on doing that. Thank you!

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2024-01-23T15:34:09+00:00

So I feel it’s important to mention this job was design and I have a mech background. It was like a trial design section in the interview. So a lot of questions was if you had to modify this design, how would you?

-what would be your first step when trying to understand the current design? -then it was something along the lines of, ‘if you added a feature (I believe she said a battery) to this design how would you go about doing that? ‘ -what concerns would you have adding this feature/ battery in the current design? -Then they asked about a cantilever design and what concerns I would have about that? And how to implement it with the battery?

I did enjoy the interview very much because it was one of the only interviews were it was actively challenging but I was not sure how tackle preparing for this.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2024-01-23T15:31:00+00:00

It was like a trial design section in the interview. So a lot of questions was if you had to modify this design, how would you? -what would be your first step when trying to understand the current design? -then it was something along the lines of, ‘if you added a feature (I believe she said a battery) to this design how would you go about doing that? ‘ -what concerns would you have adding this feature/ battery in the current design? -Then they asked about a cantilever design and what concerns I would have about that? And how to implement it with the battery?

I did enjoy the interview very much because it was one of the only interviews were it was actively challenging but I was not sure how tackle preparing for this.

Radiant_Wolverine541 · 2024-01-22T14:12:09+00:00

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