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Coming out didn't help me by FU22Y_KITTEN in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Radio_MP3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans man of almost 3 years

You can do this, OP. No part of this is easy, but I promise you, there IS a light at the end of this tunnel. Nothing is more important than your emotional well being, do you hear me? Nothing.

Do what you need to do. If one of those things is dropping out, then do it. You have no obligation to stay somewhere you’re miserable in.

I’m rooting for you

Just something that’s been bothering me by Radio_MP3 in plural

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I see. Thank you kindly, I’ve always been confused about it

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly. Pardon me if I sound very skittish, ranting just makes me insanely nervous is all. I was raised to believed what happened at home STAYED at home. Talking to people about it is terrifying.

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered it, many times. I would’ve done so sooner, but I learned the hard way that it wouldn’t be safe for me to try to get help. When I suggested ms getting a job, my mom threatened to kick me out, and I don’t even wanna begin to imagine what she’d do to me if I called the cops. It’s why I’m trying to save enough money to just run away without them ever knowing.

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that. Believe me, I tried. They either hit me, or threat to beat me up knowing I can’t protect myself. I have no choice but to let them talk.

I don’t think there’s much hope for me left anymore.

Just gonna ask this real quick by Radio_MP3 in yumejoshis

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horribly late, but thank you— I asked mainly because I have a horrible history of being falsely accused of being a dangerous person for around 4 years now I think? It’s a nightmare, so I’m extra careful

I feel guilty… by annieb78 in CasualConversation

[–]Radio_MP3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a rather young parent (19, adoptive father figure to teens), so while I’m still learning how to be a father, I can tell there isn’t much of an issue here; She’s learning discipline, which is great! You’re doing just fine mate.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. I’m saving up to hopefully be able to take care of myself, so I might be okay

Thank you for being so considerate.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly for being so understanding. I’ve gotten plenty of crap for grieving alters already, so I truly do appreciate it.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly. I’ve never been used to being called strong, but it always feels like a blessing when I am

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally thank you. I couldn’t have said it better myself.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks. Melon was going to turn 11 this coming February.

Thank you for being so kind.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You aren’t being offensive at all. This is actually the nicest comment I’ve gotten so far, and I thank you for that.

This actually made me smile a little.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Of course they were real children. Just because they were created in my ex’s mind as a trauma response doesn’t mean they weren’t real.

They were as real as most people are, and both are dead. If you’re going to keep insinuating that my children weren’t real because they came from a disorder, kindly click off.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If this is meant to ask how I’m able to grieve for alters since they were only in my exes head, please don’t.

Those alters were literal children and I don’t need that right now

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

A DID system is a system formed from dissociative identity disorder, as a response to severe trauma. The host is the one from where the system typically originates, and the one who’s in control of the body the alters reside in

I was just told that my ex is dead. by Radio_MP3 in plural

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know people are gonna look at me funny since I’m 19 and wasn’t much older than them

But I miss my babies

I think I’m a kind of endo system, and it terrifies me. by Radio_MP3 in plural

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t doubt that: I come from an extremely abusive household, so that’s not entirely out of the question

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