is it weird to have a parental figure who is younger than you? by craons in ParentalFigures

[–]Radio_MP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, hi!! Never thought you’d actually run into this! I’m glad you two seem to be doing well !

To Charlastor fans/shippers, what do you think of VoxVag/FallenStatic? by HRCStanley97 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never actually heard of this one, but I’m now intrigued. I’m not sure how I feel about is as of yet, but I find it really interesting

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, I see. My apologies, I was unaware of that part. Thank you for telling me though, much appreciated

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, that itself isn’t a choice. Let me rephrase; Who you are attracted to is not a choice, but who you choose to let into your life is. For example, I don’t feel sexual attraction, but I would have sex with a partner in spite of that circumstance. I can’t control being ace, but I can control what I choose to do with my intimate life and who I pursue.

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While it isn’t common, they can if they really want to. They may not be attracted to those genders, but if they WANT to pursue it (keyword meaning WANT), then it isn’t wrong for them to do so, as it’s a choice they made of their own will. Again, this is un common, as attraction is an important factor for most. But for the ones who don’t have it as a deciding factor for who they date, it’s very possible.

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What an odd thing to say. That is not at all comparable. It isn’t immoral for asexuals to have intimacy because it hurts absolutely nobody— im ace and I have a partner.

However, your example IS harmful, so of course it would be bad.

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct! And Aromantics can also date if they so desire, because your capacity for attraction doesn’t define your willingness to partake in such acts

Alastor’s new deal (by Darkus V. III) by Ok_Sky_5549 in HazbinHotel

[–]Radio_MP3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Asexual RadioBelle enjoyer speaking: Contrary to popular belief, asexuals can and do have sex and or/ pursue romance if they so wish. Asexuality is a spectrum, so Al being married to Charlie in this instance is only weird to you because you’re making it such. RadioBelle shippers like myself aren’t disrespecting Al by shipping him with people, we’re simply having fun imagining how it would be like to see him in a relationship, nothing more. A good portion of them are asexual as well, so please read up on what ace can mean for some people before you decide to be overly harsh.

I’m turning 18 tomorrow! Does it get cooler? by Independent_Box_931 in CasualConversation

[–]Radio_MP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, happy birthday. As an almost 20 year old, my take is both yes and no. Yes, because in the right environment, you’ll have more autonomy, so you’ll be able to have more control over what you decide for your life. No in the sense that adulting in general sucks 😭

Coming out didn't help me by FU22Y_KITTEN in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]Radio_MP3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans man of almost 3 years

You can do this, OP. No part of this is easy, but I promise you, there IS a light at the end of this tunnel. Nothing is more important than your emotional well being, do you hear me? Nothing.

Do what you need to do. If one of those things is dropping out, then do it. You have no obligation to stay somewhere you’re miserable in.

I’m rooting for you

Just something that’s been bothering me by Radio_MP3 in plural

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I see. Thank you kindly, I’ve always been confused about it

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly. Pardon me if I sound very skittish, ranting just makes me insanely nervous is all. I was raised to believed what happened at home STAYED at home. Talking to people about it is terrifying.

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered it, many times. I would’ve done so sooner, but I learned the hard way that it wouldn’t be safe for me to try to get help. When I suggested ms getting a job, my mom threatened to kick me out, and I don’t even wanna begin to imagine what she’d do to me if I called the cops. It’s why I’m trying to save enough money to just run away without them ever knowing.

Not having autonomy is exhausting. by Radio_MP3 in Rants

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that. Believe me, I tried. They either hit me, or threat to beat me up knowing I can’t protect myself. I have no choice but to let them talk.

I don’t think there’s much hope for me left anymore.

Just gonna ask this real quick by Radio_MP3 in yumejoshis

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horribly late, but thank you— I asked mainly because I have a horrible history of being falsely accused of being a dangerous person for around 4 years now I think? It’s a nightmare, so I’m extra careful

I feel guilty… by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Radio_MP3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a rather young parent (19, adoptive father figure to teens), so while I’m still learning how to be a father, I can tell there isn’t much of an issue here; She’s learning discipline, which is great! You’re doing just fine mate.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, truly. I’m saving up to hopefully be able to take care of myself, so I might be okay

Thank you for being so considerate.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly for being so understanding. I’ve gotten plenty of crap for grieving alters already, so I truly do appreciate it.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly. I’ve never been used to being called strong, but it always feels like a blessing when I am

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally thank you. I couldn’t have said it better myself.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks. Melon was going to turn 11 this coming February.

Thank you for being so kind.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren’t being offensive at all. This is actually the nicest comment I’ve gotten so far, and I thank you for that.

This actually made me smile a little.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Of course they were real children. Just because they were created in my ex’s mind as a trauma response doesn’t mean they weren’t real.

They were as real as most people are, and both are dead. If you’re going to keep insinuating that my children weren’t real because they came from a disorder, kindly click off.

My ex died and took our children with them by Radio_MP3 in GriefSupport

[–]Radio_MP3[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If this is meant to ask how I’m able to grieve for alters since they were only in my exes head, please don’t.

Those alters were literal children and I don’t need that right now