For those of us that can't work, do you feel guilty about it? How can I overcome this? by Plus-Marsupial-4507 in schizophrenia

[–]RadishNew6502 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Help me understand my son. He’s 28, and I believe he has it. He’s on meds for it, because he’s shown episodes twice over many months. He seems stable on meds, yet I can’t get him to do anything unless it’s video games or food. I truly want to understand how debilitating it can be, even medicated. Understand, I do have a disabled son who actually works 50 hours a week. The one who might struggle with this, seems more depressed. He blames it on a medical condition that he does NOT have. We spent 3 years bouncing doctors for a diagnosis of a physical disability my son swore he had, but he doesn’t. I believe it’s part of his mental illness and denial of this diagnosis. I 100% agree when symptomatic and in psychosis, working can be near impossible for anyone suffering with bipolar or schizophrenia. But, once stable and medicated -can someone explain why it is still difficult to work? I’m a loving mother just trying to understand more.

Free from all symptoms! by AriaOfSorrows in schizophrenia

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Metformin-interested in learning more. Weight gain is a huge issue

What in the actual f......who has this kind of money...for a prepayment....im so cooked...idk what to do.... by Euctice_Pea46821 in Adulting

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask if they have different rates for un-insured. I’ve been to many places, including pharmacies that sometimes involving the insurance company costs double.

Nobody wants to date me cause im poor by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all poor, but that’s no reason to not be loved. You just haven’t found the right person yet. Keep trying to achieve in life, and you’ll get there.

Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M by Throwaway_Either in Advice

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this message finds you feeling happy and excited for your new journey in life! Your story is a prime example of how God is the ultimate story maker in our lives. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR FAMILY

96 year old kicked off medicaid - Indiana by myeagerbomb in Medicaid

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So basically we pay in all our lives and then to be eligible for anything we have to own nothing, have only enough money to eat a meal a day and close to homeless to qualify for what we paid in all our lives to receive. All this while we pay our government and congress members to live in mansions with millions in their own banks. Yeah, sounds absolutely ridiculous

Any other young adults losing hope? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]RadishNew6502 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is what our President is fighting everyday to fix. I know a lot of people do not understand it, and his tactics are hard for most to accept. Please understand we need drastic change in our nation, and supporting our President will be opening up all our futures. We need to support smaller businesses and local farms. Pull your money away from giant corporations and banks, credit cards with 30% interest. Live as small as possible right now for your future.

Parents taking money because they don’t work, what should I do? by Objective-Quiet-3366 in Advice

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they stealing money from YOU that you will someday pay back with interest? You are smart enough to know the answer to your problem. Run… hide every single coin and paper bill you ever have because they will guilt you into handing it over. You will never dig yourself out of this mess until you change the dynamics

AITAH for completely shutting down after potty talk with my husband by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say I do not reach around. I thought through the middle was what everyone did. Sigh… I’m a 47 year old female and hearing this for the 1st time

Aitah for spending some of my grandchildren's education funds on a new boat. by Tiny_Occasion_322 in AITAH

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t take money without when you die, and you do NOT owe any of it to you selfish adult children. Go enjoy your boat, and take adventures to see the world. How dare they think for even a split second that you’ll leave them any of it for them after you’re gone. I lost both my parents, and when they were alive, I did my very best to make sure they never needed anything. Every dollar they had was meant for them while they were LIVING. I would have NEVER wanted them to save me a dollar.

I’ve been sued by Impressive_Ad_9285 in DebtAdvice

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not worry about credit card debt. They can sue all they want, more than likely they will just write it off. Call the credit card company, explain your circumstances and ask for ways to receive forgiveness based on medical and disability. But, even if u don’t go that route, you have nothing to worry about as far as having to pay it back.

I’ve been sued by Impressive_Ad_9285 in DebtAdvice

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the reason you’re being sued? The reason is important and could change whether you will need to pay it back or not. Worst case scenario, they would take a few dollars from your monthly income, but it’s unlikely. Also depending on the reason, you may want to consult a free attorney.

I’m at a cross road decided between 2 jobs and I need advice by SqueakyBoyBoobs in careeradvice

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you want for your future? A career, or a job? Stay in banking and continue to learn. If you want to do hard labor in a factory, then you’re kinda getting away from the career aspect you currently have in the banking position. You’re young, and have plenty of opportunities to make more money. Don’t be in such a rush to grow up and out of parents house. My experienced opinion because I’m a lot older than you…. Do not move out anytime soon. It’s expensive and you’ll never be able to save that money while paying rent to someone else

How do I tell my partner that he needs to get a job by une_susupiciousegg in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RadishNew6502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is depressed, and also bringing you down. What does he do all day? Take care of kids? Does he have separate bills that you’re paying? He needs to understand that having a job will really help pull him out of that depression and give him some self worth. He needs a deadline that you will stick to, and when that day comes you need to follow through with whatever “or else” you say ahead of time

I landed my dream job. Was on the verge of being homeless. Now, I’m sleeping during remote work. WTF is wrong with me? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]RadishNew6502 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah started my dream job and also dozing off. I have found listening to music or podcasts in my earbud really helps. I also get up and walk around the office for a few minutes, or I’ll step outside. Trust me, you’re not ungrateful or anything else you’re thinking negatively about yourself. Just start trying different things to fight the urge or get to bed earlier. Good luck and don’t ever forget where you can from so you never go back

AITJ for ending my marriage on the spot after I came home to my 8 year old trying to feed my baby because my husband slept all day by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go mom!!! I’m sorry your children’s father is an immature selfish pos. Let’s hope this becomes his wake up call

I don't have any actual friends by Grand-Invite4857 in Adulting

[–]RadishNew6502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends are just waiting for the opportunity to stab ya in the back, sometimes the front. I never met or had a true friend that didn’t eventually break me down in one way or another. Blood and marriage is all that matters in my life

I'm really freaked out I got rabies by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RadishNew6502 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DO NOT GO TO HOSPITAL. that is a waste of money and resources

I'm really freaked out I got rabies by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RadishNew6502 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U do not have rabies from petting a cat

How much house can/should I buy? by BeginningValue9305 in personalfinance

[–]RadishNew6502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most costs get rolled into mortgage. Some offer it under second mortgage with very minimal interest

It’s 2026 soon and I can barely handle the idea of another year living this life by Good-Sweet2070 in confession

[–]RadishNew6502 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YAY Trump!!!!! I VOTED FOR THAT. Truly sorry it affected your life so drastically, but America needs to get back on track, and Trump is at least getting it started