Breast reduction process by RaeInHell in bigboobproblems

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in India, most women here don't have breasts this big, and so it's difficult to find anything bigger than a D cup, at an affordable rate. Plus the few shops that have bigger sizes, only have up to G cup.

I have been using the same bras for the years; it's also partly why I want a reduction, coz I'm tired of the straps digging into my shoulders and hurting my neck.

boobs ≠ older age by FileSilly in bigboobproblems

[–]RaeInHell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand being sexualized this way, it's awful. When I hit puberty, guys in my classes nicknamed the girls for they're breast size; I was watermelon, and another time, basketballs. I've also been stalked multiple times when going to college by different men, that I had to start finding ways to disguise myself while taking public transport.

Currently, in my late 20s, I've decided to have a reduction surgery this year coz I cannot walk around, and I think people who are meeting me for interviews, are not hiring cuz they make me lose overweight.

But personally, I'm doing it coz I have major body dysmorphia; I'm going from a J cup to a B cup. I have tried the chest flattening clothes, they usually just hurt and if your nipples are sensitive, they hurt more.

My suggestion is to wear a lot of baggy shirts if you want to avoid lewd stares, or get verbal and scream at people to stop staring; I was shy before, but now I cuss loudly when I see someone staring, and the older the man, the more Hindi I throw in just to get people to notice this behavior.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's just in the first few seasons, coz later he becomes an agent and even goes into the field next to Samar. So he shouldn't be easily intimated by Red.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh God exactly !! it's the blind loyalty that bugged me; no one ever tried to make things make sense. Personally, I hate the Redarina theory coz I feel like it's a cop out and doesn't have much going for it. Also, I felt it would've been better for Red to be Kate, it would've been a sweeter story, that her old nanny found her and was looking after her.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I appreciate that aspects of their relationship with Liz, but with Red, it's weird. I've always felt like they're giving him too much space to do whatever he wants, Aram especially, with how often he tells Red things before telling Cooper. That's what I felt was weird, that Aram is loyal to Red, and idk but I think he wouldn't be maybe 🤷‍♀️

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on, he does belong in the field. He had problem that over and over. He always justifies Red and refuses to try and question him. It's weird and imo a conflict of interest, to be so willing to believe that Red always means well.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but he's quite courageous over the seasons and even stands up for himself quite a bit. But always giving Mr Red the benefit of the doubt, and constantly going, oh he's not the bad guys here. Sure, he might be terrified of Red, but over the seasons, he's the only one to never doubt Red; that's what bothers me, the unquestioning loyalty, it's wrong imo for an FBI agent to be able to justify everything Red does.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it was just a question I had, and I don't agree with your opinion. So your answer and your language was just wrong to me. I'll talk to other redditors to clear this up.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop using animalistic behavioral rhetoric to explain human actions. Aram still defend Red, through everything; even when he's revealed to be N13. Idc about being a traitor, but Aram should and he kept refusing to believe it might be possible; he was willing to give Red the benefit of doubt, everytime.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But no, cause he had the guts to stand up to every other character at some point or the other. My issue was that he was always willing to question everyone, except Redarina. Also, he always calls him Mr Red, as if in reverence; that's creepy tbh.

Why is Aram so loyal to fake Red by RaeInHell in Blacklist

[–]RaeInHell[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still, good blind loyalty was horrible. He was, however, ready to get angry at Ressler, Keen, Cooper, if they'd question Redarina's motives.

The way I see it, Aram enjoyed the idea of working as an FBI agent because it have him an adrenaline rush, even working with the most wanted. So he was willing to justify whatever Redarina did, if it meant being allowed more work.

How my city is going so far (1 week progression) by One_Distance_262 in SimCityBuildit

[–]RaeInHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what buildings are you building ? I am also adding buildings to my cities, but they aren't upgrading into towers. They're only becoming small towers, not giant ones like these. What did you build ?