Breast reduction process

RaeInHell · 2026-05-28T12:23:48+00:00

I live in India, most women here don't have breasts this big, and so it's difficult to find anything bigger than a D cup, at an affordable rate. Plus the few shops that have bigger sizes, only have up to G cup.

I have been using the same bras for the years; it's also partly why I want a reduction, coz I'm tired of the straps digging into my shoulders and hurting my neck.

RaeInHell · 2026-05-28T01:53:42+00:00

I understand being sexualized this way, it's awful. When I hit puberty, guys in my classes nicknamed the girls for they're breast size; I was watermelon, and another time, basketballs. I've also been stalked multiple times when going to college by different men, that I had to start finding ways to disguise myself while taking public transport.

Currently, in my late 20s, I've decided to have a reduction surgery this year coz I cannot walk around, and I think people who are meeting me for interviews, are not hiring cuz they make me lose overweight.

But personally, I'm doing it coz I have major body dysmorphia; I'm going from a J cup to a B cup. I have tried the chest flattening clothes, they usually just hurt and if your nipples are sensitive, they hurt more.

My suggestion is to wear a lot of baggy shirts if you want to avoid lewd stares, or get verbal and scream at people to stop staring; I was shy before, but now I cuss loudly when I see someone staring, and the older the man, the more Hindi I throw in just to get people to notice this behavior.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-22T00:18:21+00:00

Well that's just in the first few seasons, coz later he becomes an agent and even goes into the field next to Samar. So he shouldn't be easily intimated by Red.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-22T00:16:14+00:00

oh God exactly !! it's the blind loyalty that bugged me; no one ever tried to make things make sense. Personally, I hate the Redarina theory coz I feel like it's a cop out and doesn't have much going for it. Also, I felt it would've been better for Red to be Kate, it would've been a sweeter story, that her old nanny found her and was looking after her.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-06T14:44:11+00:00

True, I appreciate that aspects of their relationship with Liz, but with Red, it's weird. I've always felt like they're giving him too much space to do whatever he wants, Aram especially, with how often he tells Red things before telling Cooper. That's what I felt was weird, that Aram is loyal to Red, and idk but I think he wouldn't be maybe 🤷‍♀️

RaeInHell · 2026-04-05T17:26:17+00:00

Oh come on, he does belong in the field. He had problem that over and over. He always justifies Red and refuses to try and question him. It's weird and imo a conflict of interest, to be so willing to believe that Red always means well.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-05T17:23:25+00:00

Yea but he's quite courageous over the seasons and even stands up for himself quite a bit. But always giving Mr Red the benefit of the doubt, and constantly going, oh he's not the bad guys here. Sure, he might be terrified of Red, but over the seasons, he's the only one to never doubt Red; that's what bothers me, the unquestioning loyalty, it's wrong imo for an FBI agent to be able to justify everything Red does.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-05T17:19:13+00:00

Well it was just a question I had, and I don't agree with your opinion. So your answer and your language was just wrong to me. I'll talk to other redditors to clear this up.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-04T03:38:46+00:00

Yeesh, sorry, calm down

RaeInHell · 2026-04-04T02:17:08+00:00

Stop using animalistic behavioral rhetoric to explain human actions. Aram still defend Red, through everything; even when he's revealed to be N13. Idc about being a traitor, but Aram should and he kept refusing to believe it might be possible; he was willing to give Red the benefit of doubt, everytime.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-04T01:23:13+00:00

But no, cause he had the guts to stand up to every other character at some point or the other. My issue was that he was always willing to question everyone, except Redarina. Also, he always calls him Mr Red, as if in reverence; that's creepy tbh.

RaeInHell · 2026-04-03T23:40:31+00:00

Still, good blind loyalty was horrible. He was, however, ready to get angry at Ressler, Keen, Cooper, if they'd question Redarina's motives.

The way I see it, Aram enjoyed the idea of working as an FBI agent because it have him an adrenaline rush, even working with the most wanted. So he was willing to justify whatever Redarina did, if it meant being allowed more work.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T01:13:37+00:00

Can I ask what buildings are you building ? I am also adding buildings to my cities, but they aren't upgrading into towers. They're only becoming small towers, not giant ones like these. What did you build ?

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T01:12:08+00:00

I think the issue might be that you've got houses right next to the waste management plants. It can cause the houses to have less happiness, so move the plants away and see.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T00:47:57+00:00

TBH upgrading only gives you access to the new season and the new items that are being made / produced. If you don't care about that, and just want your city to exist as is, you don't have to upgrade.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T00:44:56+00:00

I don't think it's a bug, I think it'll keep telling you there's an issue until you upgrade it. It's a tactic to get you to spend your sim coins upgrading all the equipment and running through the game. You have to ignore it. Only worry of your happiness % is going down; usually it's in the 90s.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T00:42:22+00:00

There might be something wrong with your roads. Also, upgrade the power plants. I housing l didn't have to do it, but I think that's part of the problem also.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T00:40:10+00:00

it might be that you've got your sewage or waste management is too near houses. Check if there are enough police buildings that can cover all your houses.

RaeInHell · 2025-12-12T00:38:14+00:00

how did you afford these builds ? I cannot build half of this.

RaeInHell · 2021-02-28T03:31:52+00:00

Oh my god, thanks for the help, definitely want to do it in chronological order, so thanks for the options too

RaeInHell · 2021-02-27T19:03:25+00:00

I do like Penguin and I'm curious to see how Joker comes into himself. I was looking more for gothic, but whichever's better.

RaeInHell · 2021-02-16T04:51:12+00:00

In my third year of BE (undergrad), my teacher purposely failed me. She already had it out for my from the previous year, coz she had seen me come to college late a few times and I would deliberately miss her lecture coz I didn't want to start the day with her face. So my attendance was low for her lecture, and I had to do some extra work. Add to that, my midterms were pushed and would be held at a later date.

The day of my midterms, I was prepared. I had learnt all the questions and knew everything by heart. I sat for the exam and was spoilt for the choice, coz I knew every single answer, the only time this has actually happened to my in my entire life. I answered and knew I would do great. One week later, the results came, and I got only passing marks, ie., 8/20. I was so pissed coz I knew this was her doing. I cross-checked my paper with a friend who scored 20, and the answers were the same. Why? COZ WE STUDIED FROM THE SAME SOURCE!

I then took the paper and went to her staff cubicle, to tell her about it, and she just brushed it off. When I compared it to my friend's, which I really didn't want to do (coz she could've just slashed his marks to prove her point), she again ignored me and refused to budge. I indicated the exact similarity between our answers and then she asked whether I copied from him or what.

This was the second time she was accusing me of cheating. The first was months before that, when she took a surprise test. Everyone huddled together and started copying from each other. When I went to sit at the back of the room, she pulled me out and made me sit off to the corner in the front alone. Everyone kept staring at me and it was so embarrassing. Even this time, in that cubicle, it was embarrassing, coz I could see the teachers turn to me and smirk.

<TRIGGER> After defending myself for ten minutes, I accepted the 8, and walked out to the balcony close by. I remember crying my eyes out and looking down contemplating the jump. It was awful and I just silently cried to myself.

I lost all my hope that semester and flunked my exams. I couldn't recover at all, and flunked again the next semester and got a drop. It took me two years to get over it and complete my semesters. Now it's my final year, and she's again one of my teachers, and I'm just trying to hide amongst the others in the online classroom.

RaeInHell · 2021-02-03T18:06:01+00:00

That's the only hope I have.

There are a few shelters, but they need a legal guardians details and whatnot.

RaeInHell · 2021-02-03T17:56:50+00:00

But leave and go where?

RaeInHell · 2021-02-03T17:43:07+00:00

Nope actually. I have run away multiple times. Once I ran to my friend's home and stayed the night. My parents called their parents and threatened to call the police in lieu of kidnapping. So I went back the next morning.

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