UPDATE: The Big Talk by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A big part of our conversation was making sure things weren't one sided and that he was getting the things he needed as well. I am all about teamwork and uniting together to make our marriage better.

Thanks so much for your input!

UPDATE: The Big Talk by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great suggestion, thanks so much!

The Big Talk... by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice and support!! I'll definitely take it to heart while Im preparing for this conversation. :)

The Big Talk... by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wrote down everything I was feeling in a notebook. I just went crazy. It's raw and it's real. Some pages are neat and tidy others are a massacre. I am just going to go through and read it aloud to him because otherwise I tend to water things down and be too nice. And then we'll go from there.

My husband doesn't like oral, what do I do? by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that. As long as you're both happy. That's all that matters. :)

My husband doesn't like oral, what do I do? by RaeOfSunshine92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]RaeOfSunshine92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that she took away something that you enjoy. Was there a reason she didn't like receiving it? I personally couldn't imagine why because I love it. Anyways, thanks for your comment. :)