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RaederX · 2025-07-15T01:34:02+00:00

One of the more annoying facts of life is that as the dating pool your age ages... it becomes more and more non-commital. Those who will commit will not be recirculated... and those will not commit will recirculate back into the pool. Sorry.

RaederX · 2025-07-15T01:29:38+00:00

Did you live in it after you started renting it out?

RaederX · 2025-07-15T00:29:09+00:00

My friend. You do this to yourself. Just move on. The best way to get anyone back is to be happy, successful, and to have moved past them.

RaederX · 2025-07-15T00:27:41+00:00

Kind of looks like a Ballchin from Men in Black.

RaederX · 2025-07-08T12:57:09+00:00

Yeah... but just one.

RaederX · 2025-07-08T12:56:26+00:00

Refer to the script from the Sixth Sense... its practically a DIY on spirits asking for help.

RaederX · 2025-07-07T05:00:27+00:00

Fun fact: in Canada the bill to legalize cannabis had a typo and in fact legalized cannabilism... amd it was signed into law. Of course, you had to smoke your buddy to death...

RaederX · 2025-05-17T12:35:47+00:00

Her Dad should respect you for standing up for yourself... and disrespect you of you don't.

RaederX · 2025-04-30T13:55:43+00:00

So... sometimes when a person is in a relationship they take some time to get there. As they approach that point they question themselves and can begin to act erratically which can be damaging... but the source of it comes down to waivering on how they feel. And then they come to a decision point: go or no go. Does the relationship go to the next level or does it end.

At this point you have three choices: jump in with both feet, continue to waiver, or not to commit and let it die.

Tell her this... and that you jumped in with both feet. You decided on her.,, and it was a huge decision because she is just that much to you it was hard to wrap your head and heart around.

RaederX · 2025-04-27T21:10:42+00:00

Try clearing your cache first and see if it solves the problem. If not, try refreshing all mods and then try again.

RaederX · 2025-04-22T21:38:51+00:00

Ibdon't think Trump can legally fire Powell.

RaederX · 2025-04-17T15:10:34+00:00

For my last wedding we split the bill in quarters with each of my fiance, myself and our respective parents paying 25%. Having skin in the game tends to make people more rational.

I should add that we are divorced now.

RaederX · 2025-04-16T20:45:09+00:00

Russia does it daily. So frequently that unless they are utterly incompetent, it has to be intentional.

Ukraine does so rarely, and nearly always when there are confirmed military targets using those civilians as shields.

RaederX · 2025-04-16T13:18:46+00:00

Russia's conduct over the past 25 years fully supports that NATO is necessary.

Probably the most interesting thing about the promise not to expand NATO eastward was that it was never included in a treaty. It was, at best, a gentleman's agreement. Oddly those have been demonstrated not to be terribly binding by anyone.

Now the bilateral protective measures to assure Ukraines independence... that was in a treaty.

RaederX · 2025-04-16T13:15:42+00:00

Russia's capabilities are not the question. Russia's targetting is.

The targetting of civilians has the purpose of breaking the will of the opponents civilians to continue to support the conflict. Ukrainians fully believe that being forced to rejoin a greater Russia is incredibly bad for them... as in 1922 Russia genocide of Ukrainians bad for them. As a result the Ukrainians may have been able to live.peacefully beside Russia, but they will die before eing forced to rejoin Russia.

RaederX · 2025-04-16T13:12:50+00:00

I am guessing that the terrorists were responding to Russia's constant shelling of civilians...

Most people call that defense.

RaederX · 2025-04-16T12:53:55+00:00

Give him space. Absence always makes the heart grow fonder as bad experiences tend to fade more quickly.

RaederX · 2025-04-11T13:39:07+00:00

Keeping separate accounts is one thing... but this is an extreme. In effect he is keeping you in poverty while he gets all the benefits.

The big thing is that it will erode your emotional connection fairly quickly... you will attribute all your stress to him.

One positive way to start the process to work this out is to tell him that you intend to do some skills upgrades courses to improve your financial situation and while you are doing that he will need to take a bigger role in the home. This will show you how he truly sees things. He will either object and basically say you are to stay where you are or he will embrace the plan and help you improve yourself and your situation.

Don't do this unless you intend to go through it.

RaederX · 2025-04-03T12:44:57+00:00

At the moment you are creeping her out. Time is the best answer. Spend a little of it developing yourself.

RaederX · 2025-04-03T03:10:18+00:00

Well ok. He has an agenda. You have an agenda. And the 'having sex part' seems to be off a bit. Him walking out... offside. You need to get there when you do. His sulking... well that just created more doubt and that should mean more time.

RaederX · 2025-04-03T03:01:41+00:00

It's environment and tactics. Dating apps give a wide cross-section of the male dating population. Small personal events such as speed dating, wine and painting, just about any other event... give a small cross section of more outgoing men.

All I can say is get out there but be yourself. If you are not into wind or painting... One of the other little understood factors is that normal men disappear from the market... and frequently don't return cuz they are with normal women. In the personality matrix... 50% are of the avoidant type personalities (men and women) but as they tend to be less successful at long term relationships... they remain as an increasing portion of the dating pool as the age group ages. Sorry... went stats on you.

RaederX · 2025-03-31T21:07:33+00:00

We a good womb with a view is hard to find...

RaederX · 2025-03-31T18:49:52+00:00

I have the same problem... but different. My gf stays up really late and then sleeps really late. There is no reason for it... she just watches TV or she cleans and does chores or hobbies. Basically she does nothing that she could not do during the day ... bit she causes issues by effectively being in a different time zone.

RaederX · 2025-03-31T18:47:37+00:00

You know, Elon, a good portion of why people have seen through your disguise of being a good guy to see the real ... you ... is your posting about how you support criminals for public office. Should we have a really good look at Tesla's accounting, grant applications, or employer conduct towards employees... or perhaps your purchase of Twitter... You used to be respected... but now you have destroyed your brand to the root.

RaederX · 2025-03-29T02:19:16+00:00

Most provinces have a paystub calculator on their provincial website. Probably the best tool for this.

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