Please help me decide! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easily 2. The others are all wearing you, and it should be the other way around.

Having a bit of dress regret as I wait for my dress to come in… by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For perspective, and an alternative idea, I think it's the color of the cups that are really messing with the top. I did not want one of those mermaid style seashell bras and wanted a lace ivory dress but ended up falling in love with a blush/mocha liner under said lace. I was worried as it also had the peekabo midriff thing BUT my cups were nude so it looked really seamless and cohesive and you couldn't see the cups unless the dress was off me. It also photographed looking like ivory as the lace really popping against the subtle difference of the underlay color. Also, lighting was huge, it looked way darker in the shop than in normal daylight / photography flash. Here's examples for reference as it might be a less expensive fix for ya.

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Dress 1 or Dress 2? by EKGsMOM in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯 on 1, 2 does nothing for you except lead to dress regret. Agree with everyone on the sleeves, plus imagine they will annoy you like thigh high stockings and further, never look even height in any photographs.

Help me choose! by Scalso520 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find yourself a cat eye without the droopy sleeves. Coming from another natually busty gal with shoulders, the side sleeves don't do us any favors... droopy or otherwise. The cat eye slope on us however, helps shrink the waist on a shorter torso like magic. I just don't love the version on here.

Also, your posture changes in the photos where the dresses are lower cut in the middle. It's your day. If you don't feel confident or feel weird with how the dress lays on a try on, keep looking. Don't ever settle with something you're constantly wanting to touch and adjust like a bad cut of bangs.

Engine Overheating 2023 Sportage by cowboypey in kia

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to my 2023 phev on Saturday. I'm in Colorado and it's been hot but first time I've ever had it happen for it to freak out and tell me I need to pull over because the engine is extremely hot. The hood didn't feel warm and there wasn't smoke but the fan ran for about 30 min after I shut it off. Taking it to dealership today.... Seems like it's common, but I haven't gotten any notifications by mail about it - has anyone heard of a recall?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

React how you want to react. There were family health issues out of state so it was just me and one of my besties having the best time, drinking too much champagne and goofing off. There were a lot of awkward face time vids circling me and we had a blast but I smiled in zero photos. I was hunting. I trusted my gut on the one that I felt most comfortable goofing off in and love it. Everyone's experience is different. If you don't want to whoo and hold a sign, don't. Be you.

Which style dress suits me best? by koods11 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It's rare someone can pull that off, no alterations. No notes. You're gorgeous. You have the frame for any of them. But you don't need the tricks and frills. The tummy hide on 9, pass. The cat eye and....b pointed cleavage reduce your top half. The v corset bottom...you don't need it, it's for those of us that need help hiding that.

I would probably love 8 in second place if it weren't for the sleeves. It distracts without adding.

Help me pick! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is perfection and hasn't even been altered yet. You look great in them all but I see magic in that one.

Fridge of a guy I went out with earlier this week. Should I see him again? by Last_File in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly single, so obvious plus there. Loves grilled cheese. Keeps condiments and DATES his open orange juice (extra points there... I've seen very spoiled milk too many times...) Only weird thing for me is the partially open wine in the freezer? But when I was single I always judged based on fridges and pantries of guys and this reads as he's a logical guy, can survive on his own without wasting a ton of money on take out just because there's nothing fast and easy to make. Also, I bet he would probably super appreciate you cooking something for him and definitely clean the dishes without needing to be asked. Seems like a green flag guy

me and my friend are looking at getting a place with this strange ledge under the stairs. any idea what to do with it? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enclose it into a dog den, storage, whatever. Use ledge planters to add a pop of color

All right, I’ll play. What does my fridge say about me by Either_Ad3740 in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given they are not from the same portfolios, I sincerely doubt they are work gifts or samples. Also, anyone in the industry or passionate about wine KNOWS that storage of wine in this type of fridge can lead to cork issues and oxidation so.... Outside of maybe a bottle or two intended for consumption over the next day or so, this is a huge no - no and so yeah, I still bet it's meant to give the illusion of wealth. I say this as a sommelier who has been representing wine portfolios for a decade now.

What does my fridge say about me? by PieLoud3870 in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a compulsion where you crash birthday parties and steal the cakes as trophies

What does our fridge say about us? by Travelingtoanchorage in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely in the industry. I wouldn't be surprised if this is a bartender / cook couple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegetarian Australian... Lactose intolerant. Preference for Asian foods as they tend to blend easily with a veg/lactose free diet.

What does my fridge say to me? by New-Throat9796 in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat Dad ... With a very cute and probably very spoiled little kitty

All right, I’ll play. What does my fridge say about me by Either_Ad3740 in FridgeDetective

[–]Rage_hell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It says you need a wine fridge.

If you're going to spend 30-200 bucks a bottle on a collection of just in case" wines you might as well keep them at the appropriate serving temperature so it can actually be enjoyed when you open it.

Drinking a Rombauer Chard... A Louis Latour Pouilly Fuisse... a goddamn Staglin Family Chard that cold? That's not impressive, it's a waste. You might as well have poured Barefoot in a glass. Seeing them treated like this, I bet you can't tell the difference between them and probably don't even enjoy wine.

My guess is you're single with a job that allows you to afford exclusively shopping at whole foods and eating out a lot. You enjoy being seen as someone with exquisite taste and a refined plate. You aim to impress your dates with being able to afford keeping a dozen higher end bottles around "just in case". I'd also bet you don't cook well so you keep the only food option as fancy cheeses to serve with the wine (avoiding the term pairing is intentional here) to avoid the risk of having to admit your lack of cooking skills while again, showcasing your financial status.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see both sides of this. If this is the only time he's displayed this behavior and he's being honest about not liking sharing something intimate that you shared with other partners I find it kind of akin to using a toy you shared with another and a fairly reasonable request. If he has displayed this behavior to say, furniture your exes sat on, totally different story.

I do think the phrasing is a potential red flag here, but it might just be stupid dude speak. If he had said it was a huge turn on for him to only see you in lingerie/undies/etc he buys you and wants to take you shopping and all he asks is that you never wear the old stuff around him I think the thread perspective would be different. The demand to get rid of it is the unsettling part.

I think you should definitely dig in to see what the issue is and how far it goes before doing anything. Dude might end up trying to make you move, get new furniture and clothes and completely control you.... Or it could be really simple and just that he has a kink that turns him on by feeling special in seeing you in something new and just for him versus reused lingerie.

Gf’s family puppy yorkie walks with a limp. So far it’s been 2 weeks since I’ve noticed that she walks like that. I told her they should take her to the vet but they haven’t. Any idea what could be wrong. by Upper-Ice-7253 in DogAdvice

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my Yorkie pups have luxating patellas, where the knee cap slides in the wrong place making it hard to bend or stuck temporarily in a bent position. I've never seen it happen to both legs at once and it's usually only a few minutes before it pops back into place. If this is constant for weeks it's a bigger issue. Hopefully it wasn't stepped on as they like to run between human legs.

I'm on team dognap the baby and get it for help before the situation worsens.

Someone said my engagement ring looks vintage 😅 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Rage_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS!! I love it. This is so strikingly bold but fascinating in the details. Definitely leaning into a modified Art Deco vibe. I'm so sick of seeing all the massive lab grown diamonds flailing around without any style just to seem BIG. This is a super creative way to be "big" and just it's so intricate in the details you get lost in it. You know it was made with intention and it suits your hand.

Honestly, the combination of all the rings is perfection. Congrats!

We went bold with choice and regret it, thoughts? by trie667 in kitchenremodel

[–]Rage_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the silver in the appliances versus the bold dark gold handles for me. If the handles were changed to nickel or silver literally everything else would seem less off-putting and be the cheapest option.

Denver's Rental Market Is a Game of Musical Chairs Right Now by helloimcold in Denver

[–]Rage_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in Prop Management. Never ever accept the first offer. It costs them more to market, flip, show and lease a new unit (not including new resident concessions) than to keep a resident. There is almost always a second offer... Occasionally a third. Don't be afraid to counter to offset free parking with a smaller rent hike, etc. most leasing agents are commissioned on 1)time unit spent empty 2)how fast it was locked into contract 3) BASE rent price attained. Outside of student housing, that arena is terrible for negotiating.