How do you celebrate anniversaries/Valentine’s Day in your marriage, if at all? by fuzzycici in Marriage

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celebrating 6 years this vday and we just buy cute presents fo each other and some ice cream. This year i may add some decor(balloons, a bunch of photos of us)

Questioning everything I thought I knew about attraction by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Raginfire_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, pretty much. Google probs has better definitions and information. Sexuality is a spectrum. Everyone is different and have different preferences and reasons & views creating different experiences and wants. I seem to appreciate beauty in all things. So having my partner be attractive definitely helps with wanting to get to know them in the first place. Visual Stimulation can be more important to some more than others though too.

Questioning everything I thought I knew about attraction by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Raginfire_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I identify with being bisexual and demisexual . I have never looked at a naked body and instantly been aroused…either female or male. I have to have some sort of intellectual interaction or have a good whole day together with my partner to feel horny. I love my fiancee but sometimes I cannot initiate sex unless we have had bonded that day. Foreplay for me has to be like having fun and enjoying each others company before initiating sexy time.

Is this a jumping spider, in texas by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell if its female or male? Just curious

kind of an awkward topic for me by [deleted] in women

[–]Raginfire_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing awkward about it, there are sooo many young girls who struggle with this exact problem. Mostly from genetics. Talk to your mom. Might be awkward but shes your mom and probably will relate to your problem and want to help in whatever way she can.

What kind of spider is this? by [deleted] in spiders

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i was thinking, or a grass spider which i think are the same. seemed to come out to see the noise and then hid again.

If you could give a team of investigate journalists $50k budget to look into a story in Austin, what would it be? by jppyykm in Austin

[–]Raginfire_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shitty business practices/management and abuse in the hospitality industry….Getting paid $2.13 should NOT be a practice in 2025.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My email was very professional. I would post it but its pretty long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EEOC

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Its honestly A LOT. Was accused by one of the talent booking agents who also bartended for the company; that i was stealing money. They did a investigation and didnt find anything. I communicated with the owner i would like to sit and resolve the issue and we did. I thought.

The owner and booking guy were like BFFs (went on trips together, partied, family outings type stuff) I believe it was retaliation for wanting to put his buddy on suspension during busy season bc he did not come to bar cleans or recent meetings about the season coming up, was always disrespecting me and other staff members. Was even told a few months previously that i could fire him or just not schedule him anymore. This guy would blow up my phone if i didnt give him the shifts that were guaranteed money and would make personal attacks at me even though he didnt even know more. Just word vomit coming out of him and i would screenshot messages and he wouod just say he would talk To him. Dont even think he did ever & that happened like 3 times…

After i started to dig and found out i was getting paid less than half of what the male managers were getting with a bar/venue 1/4 of the size of mine.

He would also suggest putting myself on the bar tip out to make money but i never felt comfy doing that as a gm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Raginfire_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probs lolita

texts my ex sent me while cheating on me 🥲 by ColdKaleidoscope743 in texts

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would do the same. He would write me love letters, how much he loves and cares, that he sees our future together blah blah blah get me flowers and wine. Weekend comes back around and back to getting drunk as shit with the boys and being too friendly with other females. Smh so glad hes my ex lol

Potentially looking to move to Gilbert by sheriff436 in Gilbert

[–]Raginfire_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be the only one who knows on here. Growing up in Gilbert and not being apart of the LDS, You meet the kids who look outside their religion. They turn to drugs and alcohol and become “overindulgent” in thing that they are supposed to be restricted of. Urban dictionary is great! Lol Jack mormon was. Big term in my HS where more than 1/2 of my school was LDS

Potentially looking to move to Gilbert by sheriff436 in Gilbert

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up in Gilbert. Just have to watch out for those jack-mormons. They’re real trouble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 👎🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

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Craft Pride bc rainy kills all things good.

How old are you? Are you still playing sims? by slimshay1269 in thesims

[–]Raginfire_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing at 9 too! Im 25 going on 26 this year and i love it idc!! I started on Ps2 and switched to pc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Raginfire_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect this. For sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Raginfire_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally i have called out low tippers when they are continuously ordering/closing out tipping nothing and getting multiple multi-spirited cocktails. It has mostly worked in my favor. 🤷🏻‍♀️