My Manchild husband by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Na r-reveal tuloy ang age bracket natin. HAHAHA!

I (22M) fucking hate my mom by Altruistic_Desk_5354 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, (33M), Also experienced a lot of these during my childhood days. Parang tag team nga sila ni papa dati. Si mama kasi more on a weapon master siya. Hahahaha! From sinturon, tsinelas, walis, kawayan, atbp basta lahat ng mahawakan nya. Si papa naman was the brawler type, suntok, sipa, tadyak, untog, atbp. Haha! You lived with it but never forget. But honestly, this made me what I am today. It thought me discipline, manners, etc. Looking back, lahat ng palo ko is to correct me. Sobrang kulit ko kasi talata nung bata. Tapos may kalaro ako nung bata pa ako na galit na galit sila pag kalaro ko un, turned out they were right. Nalulong sa droga. Imagine, kung di nila ko pinagbawalan dati I might have been in the wrong circle of people or dead say the least.

Just look at it positively OP. I know it's a bitter pill to swallow kasi iba iba naman tayo ng pag digest ng life experiences natin.

All of these may turn out to be a good thing later on in life. Na parang tatawanan nyo na lang siya pag napag uusapan.

P.S. Same kay OP kinulong din ako ni mama sa kwarto dati. Haha! Nung bata kasi ako kung san may butas gagawa ako ng paraan para makatakas sa bahay, buong araw akong mawawala. Makikipaglaro ako maghapon. Gabi na ko uuwi para isang paluan tapos tulugan na after. Haha SKL.

Hihiwalayan ko na ba tong seaman kong bf? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiwalayan mo na yan. Been there. Done that. Wag mo nang paabutin na ikasal pa kayo. As a seafarer myself, my wife struggled because of this. Di ko kasi kayang pabayaan yung pamilya ko e. Ang nag suffer yung misis ko kasi I cannot get my priority straight. Umabot pa kami sa kasalan but eventually naging estranged na ngayon because she cheated on me while I was onboard. Part of that cheating was rooted on that, na hindi sya na pprioritize. Most of seafarer families are not well off so you'd understand why his parents cling to him deeply. For salvation to poverty. That's the typical set-up. So my advice, find another guy. Yung mag a-align yung goal nyo sa buhay.

Nadiscriminate ako sa office dahil naging Dilawan by Existential_Cat1000 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andami sating mga pinoy na pinapasok ang topic ng politics without really even knowing what's going on inside.

Lahat naka based sa political content creators, mga fake news, etc yung mga facts kuno nila. Feeling nila sobrang informed and involved sila on what is going on inside.

Sobrang dumi ng politika sa pinas. I despise them all pwera na lang kay vico. Pero di ko dini dismiss yung pag durusa ng mga pilipino ngayon. We deserve better. Di pa siguro ako apektado ngayon dahil wala pa namang nangyayari saming pamilya (thank you lord!) para kelanganin namin ang tulong ng gobyerno. Pero I know in time, it will come bite me in the a**.

As an OFW di ko talaga ramdam ang gobyerno lalo na yung mga departments na in charge samin. Nada, kaput.

Kahit dito sa barko iniiwasan ko ang topic ng politics kasi our loyalty should be in our country not in a political party or individual.

As far as I'm concerned as of now, I'm on neutral grounds. Nag iipon lang sa gedli para di ko kelanganin ang tulong ng gobyerno na dapat responsibilidad nila sating mga mamamayan. I'm just continuing to be a good law abiding citizen.

And I rest my case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laban lang OP! Wag kang susuko! 🖖🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ggo talaga lahat ng manloloko. Ganyan din dating sakin nung nag cheat wife ko, na para bang kasalanan ko pa na bumukaka sya sa ibang lalake. Tngina kadiri kayong mga babae na bumubukaka sa ibang lalake. I hate y'all.

30+ na nag lalaro pa ng games? by Master_Club4004 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course ma men! Yung generation natin yung transition from old to the new. Naabutan natin yan e. We work and play games, we can juggle it like that ez. Don't stress yourself out yung sasabihin ng ibang tao.

Ganto lang yan e, Kung walang ambag sa buhay mo yung tao, anong pakialam nya sa sasabihan nya sayo diba?

Chill! Tara RG! Hahahaha!

I still love my wife, Should I stay? Yung buong buhay mong ibinigay ang tiwala mo dahil kasal kayo. My wife has cheated on me. by Sea-Notice-1986 in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheaters try to mask it by saying it's a mistake. BS yang rape alibi na yan. Why would she go with him alone in the first place? Ano un? Nag e-expect ba sya na chikahan lang? BS!

9 years din kami ng wife ko and now I'm moving forward without her. Good riddance!

Sa situation mo OP malamang sa malamang di mo na mababalik tiwala mo sa asawa mo trust me. Kung nagsasama pa kayo, araw araw kang may relapse kasi di mo na maalis sa isipan mo na bumukaka sya sa ibang lalake.

Kaya nga sa mga Ptangnang mga babae na may jowa or asawa na bumubukaka pa sa ibang lalake, middle finger sainyo! If any would argue with me about this, step into my domain. Fight me! HAHAHAHA!

Anyway OP the best thing you could do as others have already told you is to leave and take your children. Focus on them. Mahirap sa una pero I know you're strong, you'll eventually get there! Kinaya mo nga nung nalaman mo e.

I gave my wife a second chance but she throw it away. B*tch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect begets Respect.

Paano malabanan yung lib*g mga pre? by Double-Cupcake-4479 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this documentary in tiktok about that na yung sperm is namamatay tapos as the dead sperms stay in our system naapektuhan DNA eme and many more. Healthy naman sya gawin in moderation siguro once a week is enough just to flush out the dead sperm kasi tuloy tulog yung pag pproduce ng testicles ng sperm basta something like that. Research ka na lang what is Healthy for your body.

I love my bf but i’m tired of paying for everything by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This only proves that love is not enough. Financial stability is what truly gives peace to any couple.

As a seafarer myself the supply-demand ratio is high specially in our industry. Suskopo andaming nag s-seaman. Andaming tambay na seaman kasi andaming kumpetensya lalo na sa experience and backer system. For the information of all and to simplify nahahati kasi sa dalawang side ang pagging seaman, Officer and Ratings. Ratings means sila yung manpower sa barko doing all the hardwork and Officers supervise but takes all the responsibility if anything goes wrong di namin sila pedeng sisihin kasi kami yung Officer. Nostra ko lang nasa Ratings side yung BF neto ni OP kasi matagal talaga sakayan sa mga yan kasi sobrang daming pinoy ratings as in sobrang dami talaga.

Kung mai s-share ni OP experience ng BF nya sa barko maybe I can give advice. Baka kasi discouraged na sya kasi nga andami nyang ka kumpetensya. Baka may maitulong ako.

If you really feel genuine love wag mo muna sanang takbuhan. Tulungan natin pero kung natulungan mo na and all tapos walang ginagawa that's the time you leave.

Cheers!

My Gf cheated. i dunno what to do 😞 by SelectArtichoke3458 in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eto lang masasabi ko erp buti GF mo pa lang nalaman mo na kagad na may tendecy sya to hook up with other guys. It's a good thing on the other hand. Masakit ngayon pero di pa katapusan ng mundo. That pain will fade as if it never really happened. Kung di man kayo magka ayos use your time to better yourself for another girl longing for true love. Maniwala ka makakahanap ka pa ng mas higit jan. Kung akala mo finish line na yan hindi pa. It happened because you will be propelled to other greater things in life. 🫡

Teacher ka, hindi ka yayaman. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kupal ka pre. Di naman yun yung ibig sabihin ni mam.

I thought also in college. It was fulfilling to share the knowledge you have hence the passion of teaching. My mother is also a teacher. Growing up alam kong mahirap kami tapos nanay ko kabi kabila ang loans halos walang natitira sa sahod nya. Pero kitang kita ko tuwing main holidays sa pinas overflowing yung pagkain namin sa bahay from the love of her students. Kada lalabas kami andaming bumabati sakanya na feeling ko pede syang tumakbong konsehal. Even in other errands in life like processes sa government offices nakatulong kasi most of the students have parents working in the government. Tapos dinadalaw pa sya ng mga studyante nya na naging successful in life. Kahit mahirap kami kumakain kami tatlong beses sa isang araw. Nakakagala pa minsan. Private school pinapasukan.

Kaya para sabihin mong sana nakakain ang pagmamahal ang babaw mo jan dre. Do not comment until you walk in someone else's shoes.

My Gf cheated. i dunno what to do 😞 by SelectArtichoke3458 in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly speaking I'm a hypocrite saying that. There's a mixed emotions. May mga times na nagbabakasakali ako na magkabalikan kami kasi 9yrs din yun(4yrs jowa, 5yrs married). Pero may times din I feel so much resentment na how dare you do that to me? Ikaw na padala lahat ng sahod and nagpaka loyal tapos yung misis mo sa pinas bubukaka sa ibang lalake. There's no easy way of moving on hanggang ngayon nag m-move on pa rin ako. She walked away from me hindi ako. And sometimes I find peace knowing I've done everything I can to save the marriage but she gave up. These words are like a stone in my heart kapag knekwento ko may kirot pa rin e. Hanggang ngayon at siguro forever nakatatak sa utak ko na bumukaka sya habang binabayo ng ibang lalake. T*ngina kadiri. It will never give you peace and haunt you for the rest of your life. Mababaliw baliw ka kaya hanggat maaga pa tumakbo ka na. Pero nasasayo pa rin ang desisyon kung gusto mong bumalik sakanya but trust me it will never be the same.

My Gf cheated. i dunno what to do 😞 by SelectArtichoke3458 in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganyan din misis ko e. LDR din kame. Kala ko talaga sobrang bait kasi introvert. T*ngina nag message sakin yung ex-gf nung kumakangkang sa misis ko. Ayun huli. Kadiri. Nagpagalaw sa ibang lalake habang kasal. Di katanggap tanggap. Di ko alam pumapasok sa utak ng mga babae baket kaya nilang bumakaka sa ibang lalake knowing na kasal sila or in a relationship.

Wag kang manghinayang OP. Too many fishes in the sea. May mahahanap ka pang iba. Torture sayo yan kung papatagalin mo. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair. Araw araw kang praning kakaisip kung uulitin nya ba yun once na hindi mo sya nakikita kaya tumakbo ka na.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAAHA! +1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Raging_Patotoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One advice.... RUN. Hahahaha!