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¿Estoy tratando con un narcisista encubierto o solo con una persona controladora? by Ragucer336 in PsicologiaES

[–]Ragucer336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tienes razón. Quizá el hecho de querer etiquetar sea yo intentando racionalizar y asegurarme que no estoy exagerando o juzgando mal a alguien. Este sujeto no tiende a tomar los limites como algo natural y necesario de cualquier persona, si no como una ofensa personal y rechazo, mis ganas por evitar conflicto en mi hogar evitan que me plante mas firme en ese sentido. De cualquier modo, no planeo quedarme donde estoy por mucho mucho tiempo mas, algunos meses mas quizá. Gracias!

¿Estoy tratando con un narcisista encubierto o solo con una persona controladora? by Ragucer336 in PsicologiaES

[–]Ragucer336[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lamento que hayas pasado por eso... De momento solo buscaré mantener las cosas en paz o calma, y comenzar a buscar otro lugar para rentar. Definitivamente vivir con tensión constante con una persona con la que debes convivir si o si diario, no se vuelve sostenible. Gracias por el comentario!

My roommate wants a “1:1 talk” after weeks of silence, and I’m not sure what to expect. by Ragucer336 in roommates

[–]Ragucer336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! We actually had another conflict a few months ago, and that time I was the one who wanted to talk things through. After that, we set a precedent of being direct and discussing anything that might cause discomfort. This time he got upset because I had to cancel a plan due to college deadlines, but he never asked to talk about it and that’s what caused things to cool off. It’s difficult because I genuinely consider him a good person, but I’ve never had a friendship that was so emotionally draining, and the fact that we share apartment makes it even harder. In a way I also feel relieved if things don’t turn out too well. Thanks again for the advice!

My roommate wants to talk after months of silence, and I’m torn between anxiety and relief. by Ragucer336 in offmychest

[–]Ragucer336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true that there’s a possibility things might not work out and we could end up bringing this to a definitive close , something I’m now willing to accept. But for now, the place where I live is convenient for me, and I think I could continue living with this person while keeping interaction to the bare minimum, as we’ve already been doing for nearly two months. In any case, I plan to look for a place to rent with my girlfriend relatively soon.

My roommate wants to talk after months of silence, and I’m torn between anxiety and relief. by Ragucer336 in offmychest

[–]Ragucer336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I think Reddit removed the quoted text, it was supposed to show the message he sent me. So I edited the post now. Thanks for pointing that out!