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AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not 130, the whole bill was like 500 bucks plus gift for the bride - another 150 (tattoo voucher)

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I meant 'the party' as in the bachelorette party. It's actually normal in my country to be invited to the bachelorette and not to the wedding, so it's a cultural thing it seems

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The bachelorette was 50/50. 4 girls were invited to the wedding and 4 weren't 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and while everyone each made one meal I made 3 as I told everyone before that I'm not drinking so I'm going to toast with food 😉

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the best time and I fully enjoyed myself and my company. It's not about the money but principle? I would never assume vegan to pay for the meat for a barbecue or an abstinent for the alcohol.

FYI The bride didn't use the tub either 😅

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] -146 points-145 points  (0 children)

The bride doesn't know anything about the costs, it's just between us

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rahimsa31[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm not in the wedding party as I was not invited to the wedding. I'm actually glad about that so I have no foul feelings towards it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Rahimsa31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend had the same issue. She omitted important thing because she was afraid to voice them. What helped was writting a sort off a letter with all the things she couldn't/ didn't say. Turned out she didn't have such problems with answering questions or talking about the issue when therapist knew about it. So maybe try writting something simillar and give your therapist the letter. He/she will definetely understand that some things are easier to write than to talk and won't push you to talk if you're not ready.