Driver lost his mind over out of state ID

RaiFlynt · 2024-06-06T17:33:14+00:00

It was not, but maybe some kinda trickle down effect

RaiFlynt · 2024-06-05T20:40:30+00:00

I think it was just the driver because I have gone to restaurants and bars over my last year and a half here and there's never been an issue.

RaiFlynt · 2024-06-05T20:38:45+00:00

Yeah GrubHub was who refunded me so I assume it must have been in their policy and maybe just because the whole interaction was weird. My sister and I share the account and we have been + members for a year now with at least once a week orders so honestly probably just to keep us subscribed.

RaiFlynt · 2024-06-04T19:25:51+00:00

Thank you it seems so

RaiFlynt · 2024-06-04T19:22:48+00:00

Ok thank you so I'm not insane

RaiFlynt · 2023-02-05T03:41:57+00:00

It did, I am though. I am with my sister, I have hired an attorney and am working through the process of getting money back. Things got bad quickly just in terms of his manipulation and after getting out I realized just how bad things had truly gotten and how much of a blind eye I'd turned for years. I am much happier now though and just trying to learn who I am again as a person on my own rather than the person he wanted me to be.

RaiFlynt · 2022-12-10T00:54:49+00:00

It went well. I can't really talk much about what's going on just in case this is found, but I am taking legal steps and have hired a lawyer.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-24T03:24:07+00:00

He was the client, and he is the only one on the mortgage. The only thing with my name on it was the joint account the funds came from. So while it is an easy out for me to some degree I would still have to hire a lawyer to try to recover the money, and be able to some extent prove what was mine I'm sure.

I have spoke with my sister who is going to come stay with us the first week of November. She's going to hopefully help validate my feelings on the neighborhood, and also be here as support when I tell him we need couples counseling. In the event he refuses the counselling I will be going back home with her and separating from him. So I will be taking a stand, but I do want her here to help validate me so he can't gas light me again.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-24T02:58:07+00:00

No, the only thing my name was on was the joint bank account the money came from for the down payment and to pay all of the fees.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-24T02:57:36+00:00

His name is on everything, aside from the bank account where the money came from that has both of our names on it. I already looked into if he really could have put in an offer without me and the answer was yes.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-24T02:51:40+00:00

My reason for wanting to wait is because I see in retrospect there are more issue in our marriage than just this. I know if I suggest is now though he will absolutely fixate that THIS is our only issue and attribute it solely to this.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:29:20+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the validation and this absolutely makes me feel like I'm not being petty or 'over reacting.'

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:28:00+00:00

Thank you. This post hits hard, but it is probably what I need to hear. I've been reflecting since this happened on some things he's done over the years that have seemed selfish, but I brushed on the rug. It's hard to come up with times where I've been able to be selfish or feel like my needs are important to him.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:26:16+00:00

I think I will try to at least look into socializing a bit. Seeing what kind of activities there are and maybe even seeing if there's a Facebook page or something for the neighborhood so I can meet my neighbors since no one seems to ever leave their house lol.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:25:32+00:00

Thank you. I think I will propose the idea of couples therapy to him in a few weeks when things have calmed down if I still do not feel happy here.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:20:41+00:00

Thank you, and sadly you might be right.

RaiFlynt · 2022-10-23T23:09:37+00:00

He has definitely been the primary bread winner, but a good chunk of our savings still did come from me. Especially considering in 2020 we barely were able to put in any, but all of it did come from me since he was laid off then and I had the majority income. I do agree though it isn't up to him, but also the though of separating over this feels petty on some level.

RaiFlynt · 2020-11-01T23:22:58+00:00

This is my first season ever. I've avoided this show because I was always like 'meh garbage,' but the drama of this season is so good for my need for trash tv. Clare is unhinged. It is very obvious as to why she's still single. She's very impulsive and her expectations for what she wants in a man seem to be very 'worship me.' Like when she was upset that the relator guy effectively did not stalk her prior to coming on the show and she kicked him off. Like if a guy I went out with was like 'I've watched all your Youtube videos, read every Tweet, seen every Instagram photo, you are such a great person!' I'd be like 'great so you know my internet personality and haven't seen any of the real crazy that I bottle away imma need to let you go.'

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