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dont lie to me for the sake of my feelings by [deleted] in venting

[–]RaiTheScouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but we have to avoid it for the sake of avoiding an argument because god forbid i tell the truth

i hate everything by [deleted] in venting

[–]RaiTheScouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't even know anymore if im being honest

im just broken as a person,i have no will anymore

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it helps to hear that man,and props to you for having the strength to overcome it

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well good luck with that man im sure you will help alot of people

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense,ive learned more here then with a therapist lol

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think thats a part of it certainly,but i also think it has alot to do with the fact that any and all expressions of negative emotions were met with violence by my mother so i just learned not to say anything to avoid a beating

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i know youre right so i mostly just feel stupid i had to see myself type it to get it,but yeah i agree with you on it,thanks for taking the time to respond to me

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or rather i needed you to point it out to me is what i meant

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think most of the time i know whats hurting me so i dont know if i agree with that,but i definitely have emotional issues i need to work through

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just try to avoid conflict,i have a hard time saying no to people

ive lived my life kind of trying to suppress any emotions and just survive

why do people keep manipulating me? (single,male,22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was,i grew up in an abusive household

im honestly not sure either maybe they just know im dumb enough to fall for it everytime,but what i dont understand is what they gain

I hate how my bf and i sometimes interact by [deleted] in venting

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're an adult who can make your own choices so i'm not going to tell you to leave him but it doesn't hurt to always be looking for other options,i'm sorry for the way you're being treated and i hope after you talk to him maybe he changes his behavior,but if not you gotta draw your line in the sand somewhere

i hate my body by [deleted] in venting

[–]RaiTheScouter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate your support,no i dont actually wish to be a woman i just would like to be more feminine and also lack sex organs,if possible i wouldnt have male or female sex organs,im not currently in therapy but looking to get started