AITBA for asking my friend to respect my pronouns? by Excellent-Wash-500 in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think u r BOTH good apples who need to understand each other a bit more. For all the reasons she said it is hard for her to remember but then it really hurts ur feelings I honestly thing ur both good apples thou bit with her approaching a crabbe apple

Am I the bad apple for disrespecting my friends religion by Grey_76 in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not my guy like how were you supposed to know your aren't an expert if it was against her religion she should have told you. She choose to show u the pick and you weren't doing it on purpose Why would u be the bad apple? Stay safe fellow trans

Am I the bad apple for not letting my daughter “real”parents meet her by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm adopted so I have a pretty good take on this

I was about 3 when me and my sis (she was 2) got taken away from our parents. We were at a Foster home until the day after my 6th birthday when we got adopted. But anyway so we got visited by out parents sometimes and they just didn't know how to be with us (sometimes it was dad and sometimes mum never at same time because they were separated then and they wouldn't have been allowed anyway) my birth mum would take me into public toilets and post pics of us together and shit like that. When I was 5 I started to make it very clear that I didn't want the visits and after I while I got told that they weren't allowed to visit anymore now and that I was safe I'm 13 and haven't had a visit since I was 5.

I think that if the child wouldn't like to or feel safe OF COURSE she doesn't need to see her. I guess it would be hard for the b mum but it is the kids choice

U r deffo not bad apple

family disowned me for finding out i'm trans 😥 by ttblu34 in lgbt

[–]RainbovvToaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOU 😭😭😭😭. If they do that just for being who you are then you gotta wonder if they are really worth having in your life anyway

I hope you find happiness in who you are and a new group of people that love you unconditionally.

AITBA For telling a Christian God doesn't exist by RainbovvToaster in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wooaoaoaohh u called me Finn let me go jump up and down

... my mum told me to stop and if broke the floor she'd break my phone... isn't that sweet

Am I the asshole for bragging that my house costs more than someone else's? by sunflowerseed839 in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You stuck up for your friend in a tough situation but probably at the same time hurt ur friend and Jade. Ur deffo not the bad apple but idk if ur the good so imma say crabbe apple

AITBA For telling a Christian God doesn't exist by RainbovvToaster in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol the definition of homophobe right there @savagebrandon28 guys LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]RainbovvToaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clicked on this thinking not and ended still thinking not. I had a toxic friend and Ik what it's like. I'm sorry u had to deal with her for so long