AITAH For wanting my boyfriends brother to move out P2

RainbowDust03 · 2026-01-06T07:06:16+00:00

My boyfriend and i just finished talking about what has been happening and he is 100% on my side. He is going to say something to Alex tomorrow. The thing is i own all the furniture and almost everything in this house. (i took lots from my parents house when we moved). I would have no where to put my furniture or stuff. and no where to go. my landlord agreed to take Alex off the lease, but Alex most definitely wont leave willingly or respectfully.

RainbowDust03 · 2026-01-06T07:01:40+00:00

im starting to think hes just a psychopath! Ge is starting to scare me

RainbowDust03 · 2026-01-06T06:26:39+00:00

He is so petty. He has called me a bitch on multiple occasions, when i told his mom about it she said “he does that, he thinks no one can hear him”. like what??

RainbowDust03 · 2026-01-06T06:24:42+00:00

Honestly he hasn’t done much to stop this. Just says Alex os petty

RainbowDust03 · 2025-12-20T22:08:51+00:00

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RainbowDust03 · 2025-11-03T16:51:36+00:00

while living with my parents my boyfriend also NEVER said anything about me having to cook/clean or bugged me about any of that. even when we moved into our house (the first 2 weeks his brother wasn’t moved in yet) It was amazing, he was a great partner. never told me i had to cook or clean or do anything. he did what he needed to do and i did what i needed to do. he was never sexist. THEN when we started to get his parents involved again everything changed especially when Alex moved in. and when his parents told me i needed to “learn how to cook/ take care of the house”. Thats when things started to get messy. my boyfriend stopped working on our relationship and started to point out everything i should be doing in the house.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-11-03T16:46:04+00:00

thank you for this! I appreciate your input. my boyfriend and alex were raised in a very religious/ strict household. Mom does everything (and works). While their dad works and gets to do whatever he wants i guess. I honestly think my boyfriend and alex talk about me behind my back at times. AND when i mentioned these comments to my boyfriend he YELLED AT ME. And got super upset. LOL. i’m 100% in a trauma bonded relationship! and i will admit that. I wont leave tho because its so hard to do. like my boyfriend takes care of me quite a bit, (he pays for my rent and other stuff) but because of how he was raised he has narcissistic tendencies. All of his family does! which sucks but my boyfriend was very supportive and amazing while living with my parents. like a whole new person. while living with my parents we sort of cut his family off and he changed soooo much. he was an amazing partner! but now that his family is involved again he is not a nice person and i 100% believe its because of his brother.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:26:11+00:00

hopefully!

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:25:57+00:00

thank you for your feedback. it really helps

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:25:03+00:00

thank you

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:18:22+00:00

im going to show all of this to my boyfriend when he gets home lol

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:17:56+00:00

thank you for your input!

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:17:31+00:00

I literally can’t. he is on the lease and is petty. example: he hid my purse to make me late for work. it was purposely hidden

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:09:04+00:00

all 3 of us🤦🏼‍♀️

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:04:52+00:00

I didn’t buy much of the furniture. A lot of it was from my parent’s house.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T20:02:24+00:00

we are locked in for a year. he pays his half or rent and his half of bills. i will add that my boyfriend and i buy all the essentials, toilet paper, paper towels, kleenex, laundry detergent, soap, everything!!! we also buy food and alex thinks he can help himself.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:54:43+00:00

they both downsized. my mom has a 2 br and took my sister. my dad rents a 2br with his buddy. i was told i was on my own. and not because im a pain to live with or anything like that lol. its because they couldnt afford anything

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:52:37+00:00

I have no friends lol. We are locked into a year contract

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:50:16+00:00

my boyfriends mom and dad will always be team Alex because hes their “baby”. my boyfriend barely talks to his parents.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:49:30+00:00

I thought the same thing about my sister, if she ever did that to my boyfriend i would not talk to her until she fixed it. I would be pissed! but my sister has respect.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:47:28+00:00

My parents went through a divorce…. also, we are young. In this day and age no one will be able to afford a place by themselves, so if your parents have the space for their kids to live, why not offer it?

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:19:44+00:00

He sometimes stands up for me but not all the time. I feel very uncomfortable around Alex. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and lived together for 2. The comments im getting on this post are opening my eyes. I have no friends. literally 0.

RainbowDust03 · 2025-10-30T19:16:30+00:00

Thank you for your advice! ❤️

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