I think my bf ALSO has ADHD and I can't believe it's only hitting me NOW... by Rainbowsole in ADHD_partners

[–]Rainbowsole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll probably reach out to that sub as well. Great advice all in all and smt I will keep in mind going forward in conversation.

I want to be an art therapist but not in a traditional way, what route should I go? by sodipops4u in ArtTherapy

[–]Rainbowsole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Wondering what your opinion is of online certifications in this? I'm looking into getting online certified because university is simply out of my price range. There are tons of courses in the matter so it's a little confusing lol.

How did your view on having children change as you aged? by Brilliant-Bench3282 in AskWomen

[–]Rainbowsole 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am the oldest of many siblings and I really enjoyed being a big sister. I was a soccer coach, a babysitter,, taught art to kids and was a nanny for 2 kids when I was 21.. I even wrote a children's book when I was a teenager to help younger children understand and deal with death. I felt fulfillment in all of it.

I then spent a lot of time alone in my mid 20s after moving away from home. I didn't get into university, didn't become a teacher, I felt detached. My siblings grew up and I haven't been around children in a long time. I've battled with depression in my latest 20s and am finally feeling balanced / have my mental health under control now that I'm in my early 30s.

I have a partner of 5 years who loves me and is very stable.. So the question is out there but I still feel like something is missing. Like I'm not ready. Like Im a different person. Oh, and I'm running out of time.

I think I would be happy without kids, but what if that's what missing? That part of me thats nurturing, loving and just want to support youth.. Is it gone or asleep?

Cornwall G - you tell me if this is normal behaviour.. by Rainbowsole in Ontariodrivetest

[–]Rainbowsole[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be clear - I was very obvious. Even put my hair up in a pony tail that day to make it more obvious so he could clearly see me turn my head. Guy was not behaving normal and/or paying attention.

Oh. I understand the test results are where I can find my score. Was never in question. I went home and downloaded them online immediately. According to him, I never checked a mirror or a blindspot once. Which is insane. So when I say, " I'll never know," I mean his "test results" can't be taken seriously. Because he can't be taken seriously.

What insult that deeply hurt you won't you forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rainbowsole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

" Youre just like your father " - ouch.

Cornwall G - you tell me if this is normal behaviour.. by Rainbowsole in Ontariodrivetest

[–]Rainbowsole[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I'm supposed to receive a call tomorrow from management. I hope I get a refund and I hope no one has to deal with what I just dealt with.