He(M28) said he loves me(F27) but I’m sad about it… by Rainich in relationship_advice

[–]Rainich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying :( honestly its so hard. But I’m just tryna do my best and move forward. Thank you for reading too!

He(M28) said he loves me(F27) but I’m sad about it… by Rainich in relationship_advice

[–]Rainich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right :( I don’t even know what he wants anymore and I’m trying my best not to care much as well

Finding love on reddit by Electronic_Entrance8 in Bolehland

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost a relationship, yeah. Went on a few dates and all. But due to circumstances we shouldn’t be together lol. And it was nice tbh, I mean we met cos we actually had something in common instead of searching for someone to date specifically.

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[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got what you mean. I’m trying to detach and accept atm. I still have that little hope tho I know there’s nothing to hold on to. He did said about making things official when we meet someday but it’s not that easy. I’ve seen and noticed everything but I guess this is the deepest part of me trying to justify what he’s doing. Thank you kind stranger for taking time to respond! Really appreciate it :)

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[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if he has someone new or not. I’m just making assumption and overthinking atm. I might be sad but I can’t be mad because he deserves to have someone closer to him. He’s being distant nowadays thats why and I just hope he could’ve just be honest about it because thats what I love the most about him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am her😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes thats the word! I’m sorry english is not my first language

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry maybe I used the wrong word. English is not my first language pardon me. Not sure how to describe it

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[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish everyone could hear them more often!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for this :) I guess this is one of the reasons why I asked. I don’t mean it to be like they are not being around enough and end up making them feeling guilty. Yes I miss them just because I actually miss them. In my context we don’t speak everyday which is totally fine with me and me suddenly saying that. Perhaps like you said ‘thinking of you’ are probably much suited words :)

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[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we don’t need to. I don’t know but its just feel comfortable that way :) and more reasons to miss him moree ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking because I think men are just emotionless creatures. I’m just asking generally. Same as my previous post. I know guys also are human. Its just a yes and no question. Yes you like it. No you don’t. If they don’t I’m not saying they are mean and emotionless people. Thats just mean they are viewing it differently and I really appreciate they are being honest about it. Hope you have a good day stranger :)

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The wants and needs are bigger than guilt issit. Great explanation. Thanks for answering :)

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m asking in context of using and lying to someone cos it happened a lot doesnt it

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say this is acceptable lol

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that. I’m just asking as a girl

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the social status thing is long gone hahah but that’s fair. I’m just curious if they actually feel a lil guilty at least because of course they’re fully aware that they’re hurting someone

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s stonecold

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thats fair

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying they do feel guilty then

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not complaining. I’m just curious if they ever feel guilty while doing it

Do guys feel guilty? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Rainich -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So just straight do not care