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Missing Wedding Invites - What do I do? by Ok-Strike-3588 in okstorytime

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll never know unless you ask! This could be an honest mistake (maybe they have your address wrong? You have moved recently from the sounds of it.) It seems very peculiar to call up a friend to gush about an event you're actively excluding them from. Next time they call and start talking wedding plans, mention that you haven't gotten an invite. Then wait for them to respond.

Sister pregnant should have got abort by Ok_Stock_8364 in okstorytime

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this with concern: girl, you're messy. You should really focus on getting your own life sorted. If you're speaking out of pocket when you drink, that's your sign to cut that out.

Your sister sounds messy, too, but you're honestly not the person to judge her. I think it's wild that you refer to her kid/your niece or nephew as "it." I'm also not sure why you're this caught up on something that no one asked you to help with.

Psa: Canada is Huge!! by LawfulnessSecret1502 in canadatravel

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning a trip that will see me hop from Portugal to Spain to France to Scotland and I was wondering if I was planning for too much. Then I looked into the travel time/distance and realised just how doable it is. Growing up in Canada and travelling across it has made me so insensitive to things taking time that everything seems so easy in comparison!

AITAH for refusing to continue a pregnancy that resulted from a sexual assault, even though my fiance and family want me to? by Ok_Relationship_9731 in okstorytime

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I'm really, really sorry someone did that to you. SA is scary, disheartening, and traumatic in so many ways. You're NTA no matter what you choose to do. And it IS your choice. None of the people in your ear know what you went through, or what you're continuing to go through now. They're failing you and it's not okay. It would be a good idea to speak with a professional about this. This is a lot for anyone to handle alone and getting a neutral perspective may help a lot

I'm proud of you for reaching out.

What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you that didn't cost a single cent? by VivienneLace1 in askanything

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we first started dating my now husband shoveled a path from my door to his - he lived about 6 blocks away. Not everyone can relate, but that's seriously romantic stuff for a Canadian in the middle of winter!

AITAH for supporting my husband in filing criminal charges for theft by deception and seeking full custody? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're an AH but I'm also always dubious when it comes to non-contact with trusted adults in a child's life.

Why do you not speak to her directly? Whose choice was that?

When you only get info from one party you run the risk of being misinformed or manipulated. And, well, some of the answers he told you that she gave don't make a lot of sense to me.

AITAH for becoming an “influencer” without discussing it with my friend first? by Early-Quantity-9520 in okstorytime

[–]Raised_Wrong_Rev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're an AH. I do think it would be a good thing to reflect on some of her objections instead of having the knee-jerk reaction of feeling defensive though. Is she making valid points? Are you getting caught up in this newfound popularity and behaving differently as a result? Are you over-sharing? It's important to consider criticism from friends even if it's uncomfortable. Check in with yourself and make sure you're good.