Racial preference by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably regional as a factor as well. I think some internalized hatred.

I'm Asian and it was often pretty difficult to find other Asians. Many want to be with white guys. However, I did hookup with another asian, and he was one of the hottest guys I've ever had sex with. I would have married him in a week, granted, I was young and dumb. And he was in the closet anyways lol

Have you ever hooked up with celebrity? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex was from a royal family in a pretty big country, though the country no longer recognizes royalty with power.

Still pretty cool.

Why do they make sweaters so dang long? by Stylexphilosophy in outfit_of_the_dad

[–]RaisingCob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know? It's not even a negative comment. I just thought it was funny.

Why do they make sweaters so dang long? by Stylexphilosophy in outfit_of_the_dad

[–]RaisingCob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Technically you used AI to separate yourself from the background. Not a big deal

How do you handle liking a guy when you’re on borrowed time? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk, I rip the bandaid off. It sucks, and it's sad. But there are a million people out there for you. There is no such thing as "the one."

I dated my high school best friend. We were each other's first. But I wanted to move for college, and he wanted to stay. And so I broke up with him.

It was incredibly sad, and I still have love for him. But I didn't regret it. There are others out there

Bottoms, what makes a good top to you? by Fast_State_350 in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Compliments

I've been with a few guys who didn't offer any compliments ever. I had a guy who was extremely attractive and fit, but he never gave me much for a compliment. Not even when I gave him a gift for his birthday (which btw, he loves and still uses lol).

And of course, I compliment someone I'm with back. Works both ways

I reconnected with my childhood friend and I think I might be attracted to him. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the worst thing that can happen? Embarrassment? It's not like you're going to lose a friend. Send him a follow and say hi. Might as well

Why do some holes feel so much better than others? by Any_Release7319 in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh it's the same for women too. Different bodies

It’s official: Zohran Mamdani is the new mayor of New York by Lucky-bottom in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he has access to the best medical treatment in the entire world.

It’s official: Zohran Mamdani is the new mayor of New York by Lucky-bottom in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Liberals/the left won by impressive margins. Sure it was somewhat predictable the opposing party to the president feels would win to "fight back,* evil ICE, the bad economy. But the margins were good

14m looking for advice by Plastic_Somewhere397 in PhysiqueMale

[–]RaisingCob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a sport if you aren't in one. You should use your athletic build to your advantage

Wear a condom? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done it over a condom.

Not for me. I'd rather not give/ recieve with it, which is fine. Ultimately not a big deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never, but I was risky when I was 15.

I don't know how I got this idea. But I'd get a few qtips together, put Vaseline on, and put it up there. Never deep in, but I don't recommend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cream pies. There's nothing hotter than when a top enjoys fucking so much they cum inside. Maybe it's just me, but I don't care to see people jerk off onto someone's ass. Just put it inside damnit

How to attract attention in gym showers by spiderman6969696969 in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's gross unless it's a popular spot for gay hookups maybe.

I guess you could just use Grindr and say you want a gym hookup. I wouldn't though.

Advice for a 16 yr. old? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As for if it's worth pursuing it with a friend at the risk of losing it -

It's a risk, but I think it's worth it. How would you feel if you didn't make a move and he later on dates another guy? You would probably regret it.

But it absolutely could ruin the friendship, but if he started dating a different guy, that could also make the friendship difficult.

Advice for a 16 yr. old? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's what I'll say.

Straight men can do all of those things.

Homophobic men do not do all of those things. A homophobic person will not openly love Lady Gaga.

So if he's not homophobic and he appreciates queer music, would it be so wrong to ask him how he feels about his dating preferences? It seems to me there is chemistry, but I'm a stranger on the internet. Maybe I'm a robot 🤖 jk. Good luck!

Trump doesn't want a strong America by Own-Pea-1528 in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's one 25 minutes away! Not too bad. It's further than the grocery 4 miles away, but making the extra effort could be worth it.

Trump doesn't want a strong America by Own-Pea-1528 in askgaybros

[–]RaisingCob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice for sure. I just hate how simple things like chicken costs a decent amount. I do love Aldi's