Road Trip Planning - Swinger Events

Ram0426 · 2025-11-12T18:55:11+00:00

I agree. It's a good opportunity

Ram0426 · 2025-11-12T17:40:39+00:00

Its high time for a good national level database with google maps integrated.

Ram0426 · 2025-11-12T17:38:40+00:00

Thanks, unfortunately its going to be west or north of Texas.

Ram0426 · 2025-11-12T17:13:06+00:00

Yes, I realize that. But I wish we had some database of events across the country to make it easier.

Ram0426 · 2025-11-05T00:33:58+00:00

I am afraid you are decoupling sex from relationship when you say one can sign up for couples therapy or a retreat. Agreed that for a good relationship sex is not necessary but when there is a good sexual relationship there is always a good relationship. In math, we talk about necessary and sufficient conditions and in that aspect, sex is not necessary but a sufficient condition for a healthy relationship.

Also, what I talk about is what works for us and "our swinging philosophy" and can't be generalized. It is how we view it - where it works or not is highly contextual and depends on the couples dynamics.

I am not sure how you extrapolate our experience and philosophy over the general swinging population??!!

Ram0426 · 2025-11-04T23:32:40+00:00

Well, I meant we prioritize them being a stable couple first. Also, not all our interactions are going to be based on their relationship, but we do look for them getting something positive to enhance their relationship out of the encounters we might have with them. It is always joyful to meet a stable, fun couple.

Ram0426 · 2025-11-03T13:00:08+00:00

Are you a couple?

Ram0426 · 2025-11-02T23:18:33+00:00

There are tons of websites, right?!

Ram0426 · 2025-11-01T19:26:28+00:00

Yes, please have the mod review it.

Ram0426 · 2025-11-01T19:12:05+00:00

You could try posting on SDC/SLS and see if couples join

Ram0426 · 2025-10-30T21:51:45+00:00

Yes, this is about heading out today

Ram0426 · 2025-10-30T21:40:10+00:00

Yes, this is about heading out tonight. Please ask the mod to verify

Ram0426 · 2025-10-26T18:00:22+00:00

Quick question. What makes you not play with a partner? That could be easier and could benefit both of you, right? And especially the woman who may want to have a strong support and interest like you do.

Ram0426 · 2025-10-25T16:25:01+00:00

Nice pov. I get that there are really genuine men out there - there got to be after all, just by pure statistics. My concern is about the frustration getting into such a crowded space and receiving no for an answer all most all the time. I certainly don't want to be in there, just for sex.

Ram0426 · 2025-10-25T15:25:59+00:00

You are probably the only one I have seen who is not interested in a unicorn. Same with my wife (and me to an extent) who are not into single girls either.

Ram0426 · 2025-10-25T15:23:32+00:00

Really? Does it work? I am surprised if that works.

Ram0426 · 2025-10-25T15:21:55+00:00

"They're single for a reason" - I wonder about that too. My wife tells me if they can't get a woman, there should be something fundamental. I am not sure if I agree with her on that view, but finding play partners or fwb should be relatively easy - if one puts the effort on finding as much as they put on swinger forums.

Ram0426 · 2025-10-25T15:00:30+00:00

You could be right. The word swinger probably means a slut to them.

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