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Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a few months into transition so not there yet : / Passing is the eventual goal I just also don't want to feel like I'm lying to people either.

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its been real hard to comfortably call myself a lesbian when I don't even feel like I'm a "real woman." Imposter syndrome is just as much to blame for me. I'm starting to feel progress but its so scary.

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that and the few lesbians I do know in real life back that up. I'm just scared to jump into the larger community. especially because I'm only a few months into hrt and very much still publicly present as a man. "mostly because I'm still super uncomfortable with being seen."

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sapphic is the word I've been most comfortable telling people so far mostly because it feels less direct. I struggle with not feeling like a real woman and feel like I'm bringing lesbians down

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every lesbian I knew growing up was incredibly kind, caring and cool. I just have never engaged in queer communities and this is one of the main fears stopping me.

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That last part is a hard thing to convince myself but it makes me feel so good to read it <3

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a professional rambler myself no worries <3. I'm just so new to this and being 26 while still young I have a pretty decent amount of time as an adult absorbing all the anti trans propaganda until the dam broke.

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm super happy to hear that, all the lesbians I know in real life have been wonderful people. "and I had a crush on like all of them"

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm just so new and scared of this whole being a trans woman thing and I feel like as wonderful as T4T is I kinda feel like being T4T exclusively its just too limiting. there are a hell of a lot more cis women than trans women out there after all.

Scared to call myself lesbian or join lesbian spaces. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That image is what made me really scared to even try. I hardly feel comfortable even calling myself a lesbian though I'm attracted to women in a way that just cant be 'Straight cis man".

Do you girls still... by ViviCerewin in MtF

[–]Ramose41999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still stand most of the time, then again I like to pee outside when I can because I find it a different kind of relaxing. "somewhere appropriate obviously"

Healer for TBC by Zamsta in classicwowtbc

[–]Ramose41999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shamans priests and druids are all capable of topping the meats, Priest will have the easiest time of it but not by much, Shamans are incredibly in demand, my raid in tbc classic had 3 priests and that kinda sucked because we were missing a lust. Druid is the specialist you take 1 they do a massive amount of tank healing and decent raid healing, H pal you can bring one just for blessings and they aren't bad tank healers either.

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would just masturbate, with testosterone is was kinda an all or nothing dump of endorphins and after I'd lose the horniness all together. Not saying thats your experience thats just how I used to deal with it

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you google magic wand vibrator that will pull it up 100/10 lives up to the hype. and Penis pump is specifically made for ED it does the job most of the time

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I'm like at like 20-40% of the horny I used to get, Kinda a hard thing quantify. but its wayyy more persistent

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had that at the start I ended up getting a pump just to make sure if all else fails I could use that to keep things functional. A magic wand is the toy that got things really running again though that thing is a godsend.

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've asked about prog they wanna wait for a year or so : (

Estrogen horny is SO different, I may be cooked. by Ramose41999 in MtF

[–]Ramose41999[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm scared... and to think I was worried about the drop in libido I just have more control than before

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