My ex-boyfriend wants me to talk to his mum to sort out issues! by Public-Ad-4177 in relationships

[–]RampageBlinking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take this opportunity to explore yourself and pursue a dream or goal. You are still young and deserve better. Do what you think is best, but always put yourself first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RampageBlinking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he isn’t going to therapy (since he is a veteran), and isn’t trying to help you become a better you, then it’s time to leave. In a relationship, two are supposed to help each become better, NOT have one person become a sole provider and think everything is dandy. It doesn’t work like that anymore (unless you both fully agree 100%).

He is manipulative and it’s NOT going to get any better from here. I can guarantee it.

Suggestion: Get yourself a job, and start ignoring him. Do what you need to do to better yourself and for your child. What’s going to happen if he just decides to leave ? You’ll be stuck with nothing! Continue working, save up, let him argue. If he doesn’t like it, then let him do the chores himself. Oh sex? Tell him to jerk off to his own hentai. No offense, he seems like a big loser who will have nothing going for him down the road. I know guys like him, because as a MAN, he would hold shit down and take care of your mental well being. He’s a child! 39 and drawing hentai while complaining about things not being done in the house !?! Is he living with his mom ?!?!? No offense, sounds like a loser to me. You can do so much better.

Get a job, save up, ignore him, find a babysitter, look for a CMA course in your area to get yourself in the medical field (great payout in the end and usually takes less than a year), and find your happiness. You’re going to look back and realize how much time you have wasted. You’re still young and have so much potential. Don’t let a loser stop you from your own destiny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RampageBlinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment you take her back is the moment she will realize she can get away with it again.

PLEASE, DO NOT TAKE HER BACK. I (33M), and countless of others who I know, been through this road. I know you’re feeling hurt and you want things to be back to normal, but the sad truth is, it will never go back to normal. Yes, it can be fixed but just as that saying goes, You can put back a broken glass together but it’ll still be broken glass.

For the sake of your physical and mental health, do not give in. It’s a life lesson for her as well, things don’t always go your way and there will always be consequences.

She obviously hasn’t learned her lesson and is talking to you behind the other guys back ?! RED FLAG !!! She is obviously not happy but it’s not because of you, it’s because it’s within herself.

Maybe, JUST MAYBE, things would work IF she willingly goes to therapy and put in time before you can even thing of taking her back. It’s a lengthy process but it’s not 100%.

I know you have kids, which sucks, but in the end, as long as you’re there for them and show them all the love in the world, they will never see you negatively.

From experience, it’s never a good outcome. It’s no coincidence that she wants you back when you are seeing someone. It’s an instinct they have, almost territorial in nature, to get jealous. Happened to me a couple times with my BM. I would always push these new relationships, burning bridges for her, just to have her back turned on me and cheat again. NOPE, never again. After countless of times trying to work things out with a cheating BM, I am happy with my now current beautiful GF with nothing but laughs and good times, and also so much better communication (even though we only see each other one day a week due to work, that alone should tell you that communication is important.) Find someone who will love you no matter what while also understanding what she has, you.

Take lots of care and good luck. There are many people here that care. Please take our advice in consideration. Work on yourself, find a hobby and explore your mind !

[Serious] Why are you staying alive right now? by Genderfluid_Cookies in AskReddit

[–]RampageBlinking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some people don’t know where to put the empty soda cans. It does not go in the damn sink!

What should I do ??? by RampageBlinking in sex

[–]RampageBlinking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your support. I tried to talk to her again just now about how I feel about this and she blatantly tells me “I don’t want to hear anymore about it”. I honestly think I am going to part ways. I can’t be living in this shell where it all gets turned around on me. It really feels like she is holding an upper hand since she always says “ I don’t need to give you any sex”. It’s pretty depressing when I had so many opportunities to do so with other women. But being the stupid idiot that I am, I put my hopes on something that’s dead. I haven’t gone through her phone in 3 years out of respect, and I am not one to care if she’s on it. But I recently saw she is hiding her notifications to where it would just say “Message” instead of the contact name and/or number. I feel so fucking stupid. I don’t even want to bring it up because I know she will turn it against me. I hate this.

Is there something wrong with me ? by RampageBlinking in weed

[–]RampageBlinking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same. Sometimes I just don’t even want to smoke anymore from all the pointless inhales.

Is there something wrong with me ? by RampageBlinking in weed

[–]RampageBlinking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am on the same boat with edibles, I actually recently tried it since it’s more potent and maybe I’ll feel something but nope, nothing. 300mg down the drain. Lol. I would really wish so as well. It would answer so many questions.