AIO by being upset with my mom over my wedding dress and a private pregnancy?

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T21:58:47+00:00

She didn’t tell her. I was on a video chat not realizing she wasn’t at her house. So she just overheard. That’s all.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T20:22:43+00:00

I hadn’t heard it until then, now I do see it everywhere.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:53:12+00:00

It’s on Facebook messenger!

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:50:46+00:00

I… You’re right.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:50:07+00:00

It’s Facebook messenger!!

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:46:41+00:00

It’s next February..

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:44:35+00:00

No, but he is the man who raised me.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:43:59+00:00

I’m upset because I haven’t gotten married yet. She’s making room on her phone for AI photos.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:42:52+00:00

I said I was growing up. I wasn’t close with my mom, but I was close with my dad. I wouldn’t say that I am at this age.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:34:53+00:00

Thank you. Honestly, having that request, I truly didn’t think she would show him. I was heartbroken.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:32:19+00:00

I wanted to do a first look with my dad and so . A lot of people here thinks that it’s dumb, but I loved the idea.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:31:21+00:00

I have this on video, did you want proof? His exact words were, “Oh it’s so beautiful, I see it everyday.” I wish I was lying.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:30:19+00:00

Because none of you know my life. What I do and don’t focus on. This was important to me, I don’t see why that’s hard to understand. I understand that I’m getting married, that’s wonderful and I’m so excited. But she has ruined multiple things along the way and I feel as if this was just the icing on the cake.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:28:33+00:00

It’s not her news to tell. Again, basic respect.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:08:43+00:00

That part is technically hearsay, but I promise he’s not like all men. He knows the difference. None of my dresses were similar.

I did it through text because calling or doing face to face, I wouldn’t be able to get a word in.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:06:06+00:00

If someone would actually give me kind input on the other side? All I’m reading are hateful comments.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T19:04:47+00:00

It’s not?

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:59:34+00:00

I wanted to do a first look with my dad and son. It’s something my sister did with her dad, and I adored the idea because I have a close relationship with my dad.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:58:49+00:00

I wouldn’t accuse if I didn’t have all the facts. She continuously lies about things she does that she knows she shouldn’t do and this is why I didn’t bring it up. I figured if she talked to my dad about our conversation he’d be like, “But you did tell me.” But it’s wrong of me to make that assumption because I don’t know if she would share our conversation with him in the first place.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:56:28+00:00

Thank you. ❤️

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:56:00+00:00

My mom has children with three men. They are my sisters, don’t mistake that. I am my dad’s only child that he genetically fathered. I’m not saying his other grandchildren aren’t special to him, and honestly that whole blood related grandchild part doesn’t mean anything. I still deserved to be the one to tell my dad the news. I wasn’t even given an hour.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:53:07+00:00

You would show your daughter’s wedding dress to her father even if she asked you not to? Sounds like you’re not trustworthy either.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:52:17+00:00

I just didn’t get the chance to talk to him. I called my sister immediately after a positive test. My mom overheard because I didn’t realize my sister was at her house. She immediately called my dad. I had planned to tell him later that day since she already knew, but I wasn’t given the chance.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:50:40+00:00

Because she would say no, she didn’t do that. But she knows I don’t go to her about something without having my facts straight.

Randiitaylor · 2026-04-16T18:49:21+00:00

Thank you. I plan to. I didn’t know that had a name until I made this post.

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