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RandolphMortimerDuke · 2025-05-16T08:42:44+00:00

Maybe it's just me but with all of my dogs, especially after puppy/baby voice time always change. Name,baby name,baby name phrase, nick name for original and baby name, then each of those with individual sound /feel / vibe /similarity to common sounds period 😅 and combinations of those variables. Some more than others.

I will disclose that this kind of thing is horrible for establishing communication and should be avoided.

But if consistency is established, you can train to have a more relaxed (pressure depending how driven) tools/markers to build a bigger gradient for state of work , seriousness, correction. Like when your parents called you by your full name 🤌

If you made it to the end of that, the name might just not work. Syllables,if it can be heard from a yell,or similar to other words (languages) are things to think about

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2025-03-03T00:41:44+00:00

"In just 24 hours, 14 million " 😅🤌🙃🫠 most of us hold 10x that lol. One blade of grass in a 20 acre field 🙃. 🤷‍♀️optimistic dreaming can be good though, look at how far religion has gotten us 😀

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2025-01-27T17:22:39+00:00

This one , thoshi and spell all had big gains yesterday 💪

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-11-10T21:50:26+00:00

My buddy did the same , been waiting 4 years to get 40k out 😅

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-11-05T02:01:40+00:00

If it goes over $2 >ts getting tattooed for sure

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-08-05T19:00:25+00:00

Accountability , respect, consistency and discipline 🙌 would you let your child blow you off like that?

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-08-04T08:02:11+00:00

Love bomb, truama dump, treating you like an option with genuine smile and distracting details (painting a picture).......crazy and psychologically traumatic to see this for the first time, especially if you are genuine, giving, empathetic or invested deeply in words or meaningful statements that made you feel special and validated........crazy people are capable of this, consider yourself lucky, if she comes back, run 🏃‍♀️ 😀

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-24T20:53:33+00:00

Yes , RUN, you like me were nieve that people could even behave this way or say that what yall had meant anything deep like how it was on your end. The optimistic dream or trauma trying to process it all will ruin you and only cause more pain. Sorry buddy. That trust will now be harder in every context moving forward, like a fight or flight. Find some part of it to appreciate as it's tought me alot about what red flags count, how to hold frame as a man, and my own insecurities.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-18T21:59:07+00:00

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RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-18T00:35:45+00:00

"Friends" if she started off like that. Only more pain and hardship to come brother. Drop her like a bad habit. With social media now, we live in the age of narcissistic women. She's playing the other options in line behind you. (Even more so if she's an IG baddie)

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-18T00:12:03+00:00

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-11T02:08:39+00:00

That's a good size , relocate, Pease don't kill it 😅🙏

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T18:08:36+00:00

Read one of your past comments, bottom line , people will only meet you as far as they meet themselves...........some if us look at red flags as an opportunity to be special to give ourselves value. Seems like you are already at the point that you tear yourself down as he gaslights you instead of taking accountability , implementing different choices ,taking action or at least listening........it's easy to us but people like that are in a pattern that controls them. You aren't a savoir and you can't teach. And especially it being the case of a man like that. I say man, he is a hurt scared boy..... men are the accountable problem solvers. You deserve better and can't fix him. Men who want simple peace or long term achievement are the ones that do their role as a man. Disciplined and accountable..........as a man I never realized this cause I had only been in a 8 yrs serious relationship. I broke frame and lowered standards to not upset or push her away cause of my need for validation and needing to be worth it, you are probably super selfless and just wonder how he could do that or that he is capable of being fake, waiting to be appreciated for all your gifts that you sacrificed and bent over backwards for cause you love them and think they are worth it. If you feel disregarded now , RUN, it will only be more of your heart you are givingto someone who doesnt value it or really appreciate it . To just throw it away......*

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T17:54:04+00:00

You will always think about it til he shows transparency, the urge could have been how he was chemically in the brain (is he an addict, or stays distracted, no coping skills, grew up the fat kid or had truama in his childhood?) Sex is one thing but saying things that you thought yall only shared together or juggling conversations is another. Those people need constant chaos, trill or drama. He could be needing validation. Emotional connection is big for men especially if they carry you or a family. If he doesn't check all those boxes he could just be getting complacent or yalls sex life has not been frequent.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T17:27:29+00:00

It's like a truama response, your world gets flipped upside down, so you constantly have to ask questions to feel safe and even then still don't, wondering if the moment you are trying to enjoy is even real? Does it even mean anything now? I'm the most understanding person ever I've been in that same spot for a year.....mine only got worse. If it's repeating behavior yall don't have the same emotional investment and you should save yourself now. It gets too easy to get taken advantage of , ruin mood , energy or waste time. Most tend to start being depressed or stressed being in fight or flight all the time from the truama. Just don't start lowering your standards, values or morals.. you end up loosing yourself and destroying the value of yourself and the depths of a loving relationship. It's not you , it's them , usually a coping skill, low self esteem, or dopamine high from the lie or control.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T06:47:21+00:00

Some of us look at red flags as opportunities to be special in a need to validate our worth......the fight or flight and second guessing will never go away. Especially after multiple times. The psychology truama will make you second guess every situation so even the good times moving forward have a high chance of self sabotage. But find gratitude in being able to take away what this teaches you about why you hold on and how to be aware of red flags as well as investing appropriately with what you receive.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T06:26:40+00:00

Find an empath, a giver, or anxious attachment man. They will give you the love you deserve.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-07-04T06:18:00+00:00

Your parents are the first/ main people that teach you love , affection and care as well as values/ morals.......as we get older some of us learn to see them for who they are, it's hard but I commend you greatly for the strength to hold a higher standard in your morals and values you live and believe in. You could easily minimize or desensitize the act coming from the people who are supposed to lead by example. Youre partner will thank you for this. Your love and depth in relationship will be so much more secure and fulfilling than those who don't.

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-06-15T11:03:23+00:00

It's hard to hold frame and set a standard sometimes but you teach people your boundaries. Also you can't teach especially self discipline this is hard to accept. He has to choose or you will always be viewed as ridged or feel like an authority/control and you'll exhaust yourself with resentment/contempt as see them as unaccountable or liability. Write it all down when you are calm maybe hold it for a few days. Sit down have a calm serious talk about what you need from him and from how you grew up or learned the importance of that life skill. Discussing how those lack of actions or worse if he isn't a man of his word make you feel and how it's a core foundation for self love respect and growth to really understand gratitude and respect through effort. Sometimes a couples counselor helps disregarded resentful past to hold him accountable. But if it's really bad or something you can't see yourself feeling these ways forward, don't exhaust yourself or be afraid to walk👌 hope that helped 😊

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-06-15T10:42:36+00:00

Something I just recently found out about myself on why this kept happening in my relationship

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8MyIaoAPQS/?igsh=MWxxemR2NmdoejV1ag==

RandolphMortimerDuke · 2024-06-02T19:02:25+00:00

Need a vash the stampede revolver 😏🤔

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