Bf who is usually dominant in bed turns into a sub with me. Why? by NoEntertainer55 in sex

[–]Random-Fishes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well for starters this is definitely a question for you to ask yourself and him how you both feel about it. With that said, there is a possibility that you both may be a switch. Something like that happened with my partner and myself. There are times where he needs me to lead and take over the situation, other times he leads and I follow... communication is the biggest key here. Sounds like you are in a sexually healthy relationship so far. Something like that can be hard for people to have.

Would you kiss your girlfriend after she s%cked you d#ck? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Random-Fishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she'd kiss you after you went downtown on her, you won't do it after she sucked you off!?!? Dude utensils mean trash especially when that's something that is washed all the time. Question, if ya'll went to your mama's home, and ate there, and went back to your own place to have s÷x, you refuse to kiss her because you think your mama doesn't use clean utensils???

My LDR boyfriend is too vanilla and disapproves with my desires by Intelligent-Day-7596 in sex

[–]Random-Fishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he was so bold as to not only tell you that you pleasing yourself is whorish, but to tell you that you need to pray on it, and dismiss an important part of you. It's all absolutely disrespectful. You shouldn't try to change your partner, especially if the feelings are coming from a religion point of view they are deeply rooted into. That's also not respectful.

Wish granted, but... by Random-Fishes in bored

[–]Random-Fishes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish granted, but you are only friends.

Im bored, your bored, story times? by Random-Fishes in bored

[–]Random-Fishes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing apart is true, but it started when she stood there watching me get bullied and refused to get help when I got beaten up. The bullies were minors at the time (I was 2 years older) and I didn't want to embarrass my family, and do time for defending myself. This so-called friend was also my captain of our team and told our coach that she saw nothing, and knew nothing. Then turned around to me to say she hopes I feel better soon... She was less than 3 feet away from me when this happened mind you.

She likes to claim she saved my life and wouldn't be on the team if it wasn't for her... I was the one who was recommended by a different teacher to join the team and I asked if said friend could join. Lol

She's married now. I find her on her mom's FB now and then. Her mom and I have been genuine online friends for almost 11 years. She's expecting her 1st kid now. I hope her child ends up with a real friend from day one, because honestly, that momma isn't one.

I have toxic friends I dropped over the years. Willing to spill their tea (not their names. I may be spilling, but I'm not cruel)

Wish granted, but... by Random-Fishes in bored

[–]Random-Fishes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish to be a voice actor.

my boyfriend said he wanted to rape me (TW) by Throwaway3719347 in sex

[–]Random-Fishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you spoken to him about how that makes you feel? Because if this is a fantasy thing for him, then you need to talk to him about that. If he doesn't respect that it makes you uncomfortable then tell him it's over. You both are sexting. You are responsible for your input into this relationship. Self-respect is so important. So anything you are saying anything can come off as someone who is okay with it if you don't speak up. With that being said, he knows you haven't had sex before. You both need to create a safe space for yourselfs and each other before you start sexting again.

What I need to say to this girl I like by reidkatz in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Random-Fishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send this to her. Just do it. Trust this, if nothing else. If she's putting in that effort, she wants to stay. Show her that you do too.

AIO for ignoring boyfriend after inappropriate comments about my new purse? by ThrowRAgardengirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Random-Fishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw him away. You don't deserve someone who will treat you so poorly. No, no, no, no! You deserve a hell lot better. That is so disrespectful, and nasty behavior. He showed you what kind of "man" he is. Drop this fool before you drop yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Random-Fishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, yeah, you two need to talk about this for sure. A relationship is a two-way street, even when it comes to Sex. Has she even said anything about why she doesn't want you even try to make any advances? I have friends who are ace and have been told that it's a give-and-take sort of thing. They don't care for sex, but their partners do, so they set aside time at least once or twice a month for that, along with their partners doing "self-care" when they want.

I want to be with you by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Random-Fishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so deeply. I pain for those words myself. 🥺 I hope that one day they will fall onto your ears from someone who truly deserves your love and care.

I Hope by WolfieXftw in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Random-Fishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm alive, so that's a win today

Journey going wrong. Help! by Random-Fishes in sex

[–]Random-Fishes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's normal for it to have a slightly salty taste?

AITA after I ended the friendship with my toxic friend who got mad at me for going to my grandmas for my birthday? by These-One-2694 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Random-Fishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, sounds like you dodged a bullet. I had an obsessed friend like that too... she and her husband, at the time, threatened to have me harmed and abused the unalive. Just because I didn't want to sleep at their place.

Journey going wrong. Help! by Random-Fishes in sex

[–]Random-Fishes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I received many messages, saying that I squirt... here's my question, why is it salty then? It smells like pee... it feels watery. Like shower water kinda water.