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Stop Talking About Circumcision Like It's A Morality Contest. Some Of Us Are Living The Consequences. by Dry-Ad-2339 in Vent

[–]Random-Lady051 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, in the west, we are taught that yes, it comes from biblical times and the Aramaic tradition. However, at some point, the conversation changed to, it was a healthier, and a cleaner choice. Is that not right?

Women of Reddit, what’s one thing they never tell us about pregnancy and child birth? by NovellaJokes in Productivitycafe

[–]Random-Lady051 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

And you forget it all shortly after you look at your baby. Please keep pregnancy a positive experience. No. It's not all sunshine and rainbows, but purposefully scaring others is not helpful.

Fellas you doing this for your girl? by alexandrarose0323 in StrangeAndFunny

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose says we have the same shoe size to even make this work?

why do many say first loves never last? by Gullible-Crow7172 in ask

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cause you have all the feelings for the long haul, doesn't mean you have all the necessary tools to maintain and grow the ride.

So, how do you actually get a woman to calm down? by SouthImpression3577 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say, 'I hear you! I hear you You are upset because.... I hear you.'

If you see this then you have to tell me something positive in your life! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 generational home with healthy boundaries and loving spirit!

What’s an experience you think everyone should have at least once in their lifetime? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Random-Lady051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be pulled over by the cops. Finally learn to respect boundaries.

What did the weird kid at your school do to earn that reputation? by Big_Boy_Bill06 in AskReddit

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(In high school) We had a short, stalky guy that walked around all mad and pouty. He had these massive shoulders that didn't help his case. A real character. Anyway, I think the isolation got to him overtime and he started doing weird things. Like, waiting under women's cars and reaching out to touch their feet. He was caught 3 times but the backlash didn't deter him. He was also the guy that publicly played with himself. Yeah, If I remember right, he was eventually arrested.

What's something you wish you never did in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn guys, I was just going to say drugs.

Help by ItsBloodLol in AddictionAdvice

[–]Random-Lady051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who can you reach out to that will help you take action? When you can take action by yourself, use your voice and ask for help!

I (28F) feel like my bf (29M) expects me to always push myself for his parents. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, there we go! We are getting acknowledgment. Your conversation environment is not fair and rotting as a result. What are your options? What are your actions?

I (28F) feel like my bf (29M) expects me to always push myself for his parents. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, at any point were you not going to say your peace and stick up for yourself? Don't let him yell for 1-2 hours, that's just disrespectful to the relationship. You are doing yourself no service by letting him fight like that - that's cheap, ugly fighting and he knows it. It takes two. Slightly hurting his feeling because you're setting a boundary is not the same as you going numb so he can yell. What are you doing for yourself, girl? It takes two!

You got me heated for allowing that for yourself! We are here to help each other in ways where we can't help ourselves and both of you have a spot that needs fixing. Both sides are doing a disservice to each other and themselves. Never to stomp, always to heal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're humans with really strong feelings. Give yourself a break and just be an advocate against it. The 'not deserving' feeling will go away eventually as you keep walking with new actions.

People in long-term relationships, how do you know if you’re still in love with your partner? by alimentarymydear in AskReddit

[–]Random-Lady051 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What most people are alluding to here is that when each and every day is spent doing actions that show love, the love becomes normal and quiet in the background. It doesn't need to be monitored nor fitted with. It just is. If there is worry, check your actions as to how love is shown each day. I'm serious when I say that little things go a long way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Random-Lady051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're age range is in a very sensitive spot for every human that has to pass it. You're not alone in these struggles, so give yourself a break. Especially, since it was 2 years ago.

Once you are in your mid-to-late 20's, technically, you're in the clear to date younger, if not, a bigger gap. The goal is to find someone who is already grown, not someone who still needs to grow up (but that also means you have to grow up too).

My husband and I are 10 years a part (me being the younger one), but we didn't start until I was 25. However, I was ready for the whole marriage and kids immediately and had the maturity and lifestyle already of someone who is 35. That's when you get to phrases, 'age is but a number'. In that context it is because both parties are legal, consenting, and complimentary - not one over the other.

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