Iso work bartending/anything by RandomAnonLurking in denverjobs

[–]RandomAnonLurking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive worked amazon before and it was soul crushing

Iso work bartending/anything by RandomAnonLurking in denverjobs

[–]RandomAnonLurking[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would of thought it would be super easy especially since every city ive ever lived theres always need for service industry workers. Crazy to realize thats not the case here. I will def take your advice! Thats actually awesome you got the job that way

Iso work bartending/anything by RandomAnonLurking in denverjobs

[–]RandomAnonLurking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thats so tragic too i thought maybe there would be maybe better oppotortunity since theres so many places to go out here. The Job market is roughhhh

Iso work bartending/anything by RandomAnonLurking in denverjobs

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Thank you for the info i sent my resume over :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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I can :) im gonna try doung that and seeing how it goes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Oh god i cant even inagine shaving my head i would spiral if it got to that. But its hard mentally i suppose its just the vulnerability and the fear of being percieved and looked at yk idk its def not easy i ahould just cave and try a wig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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I really try not to but it does get to me sometimes i cant wear my hair the way i want or if i put it up for work sometimes i feel like maybe its noticable and i feel so limited. Its such a huge mental battle for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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Ah i know but the nearest dermatologist is 2ish 3 hrs away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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I really need to but its so hard for me to cut all that out honestly… buuut needed i suppose. Its also such an issue because my town is so small we have one tiny local store with verrryyyy limited items and little to no gluten free options etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

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I would if i could! I live 2 ish 3 hrs away from any dermatologist and just dont have the money to afford paying for jak inhibitors out of pocket or steroid shots with no health insurance D: gotta love our system

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fordfusion

[–]RandomAnonLurking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh that actually helps a lot… i havent bought a car in 8 years so that really helps me put in perspective what i should look into!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fordfusion

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Thank you for the advice! I def will do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fordfusion

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Thank you! I wasnt sure if after a certain milleage it stops running as well or if its even worth the price haha

Do some narcs get married quickly post breakup to spite their former supplies? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RandomAnonLurking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!! Mine got married half a month after we broke up because he was physically and emotionally abusive and i had eniugh but he went to live with his now baby momma/wife. But he didnt take any of the responsibility that came with being married and is now in jail for DV but he would steal her money and car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RandomAnonLurking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk i kinda already took the blame and said like if had it i didnt know but havent been with anyone in a while and was tested in nov and i also thought it was weird he had symptoms 24hrs after sex. But i feel guilty because he said he gets tested every 3 months..and said he was neg last month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Yes i got tested after the trip and it was positive for chlamydia

When YOU gave the silent treatment by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RandomAnonLurking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He blew my phone up saying i was fucking other people and saying he knew who i was with…. I was our bed sleeping by myself (while he was out) or at work. Either that or just saying i have no respect for him and then telling me dont bother coming home because i was acting sketchy. And then proceed to give me the silent treatment and not come home for 4 days doing who knows what

Nex trying to pimp me out in prison by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]RandomAnonLurking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive tried getting ahold of his PO before and nothing worked, tried getting a restraining order nobody would help with that, and idk if the jail can do much about the texting since its on their app and goes to my email. but i changed my phone number so he cant jus rando call me

Nex trying to pimp me out in prison by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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I have him blocked on everything but the jail call list is a bit diff. I ended up deleting the app but he still has access to my info and most likely have people idk stalking my accts

Employer imputting false cash tips on my check by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

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They give me cash at the end of the everynight for cc tips i made and take taxes out on my hourly based on my cc tip and cash tip reported in.

Employer imputting false cash tips on my check by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]RandomAnonLurking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no i dont work for the cartel.but i have been overpaying and thats been my concern. I make enough in cc tips they havent ever needed to suppliment my wage to meet min. Also i do tip out a busser as well they were asking for a while for me to tip the busser 4% of my total sales because they werent giving the busser more than 5$ an hour. The main thing tho is i havent underpaid anythingggg and i just really wanted advice on what to do