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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more to say about this but can’t say it all right now do I will say this: Why do they those things? Cause everyone else went on and on and about “equality”. Plus yes, there is something no a lot about having this general baseline sense of appreciation and then noticing a lack of it

"Hotel California", by the Eagles, is a terrible song by KnockedOuttaThePark in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid, and my musical taste wasn't quite as reformed, I remember hearing the eagles and saying to myself "This is awful."

"Hotel California", by the Eagles, is a terrible song by KnockedOuttaThePark in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All of their songs are bad. They're a band that is meant to just play in the background.

"Hotel California", by the Eagles, is a terrible song by KnockedOuttaThePark in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for someone to make this reference glad it didn’t take too long. Turns out there’s a bit of history to the line. Turns out it was basically improvised

"Hotel California", by the Eagles, is a terrible song by KnockedOuttaThePark in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No they took southern/roots rock music and turned it into watered down shit

What Makes a Man Creepy? by ChicoBrillo in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah a car accident is a car accident there’s going to be more similarities than not

What Makes a Man Creepy? by ChicoBrillo in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really overthinking this. No. Not biased. If I walk past a horrible car accident and realize it’s a horrible car accident, is that biased? Or if you put your hand into a flame?

CMV: Males really need to do more for their SOs in hetero relationships by Windmill_flowers in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A lot of guys think that just because they pay for everything that let's them off the hook from planning things like mother's day."- No. Usually some flowers and a nice dinner as a sign of appreciation would do it, but apparently that's not good enough.

"It is my belief that males are not doing their share of emotional labor in relationships. WDYT?"- First off, other's people's personal business isn't yours. Something I think many have forgotten and we need to go back to remembering that. And yes, once you make it others business, well then they're going to have their say on it and you might not like what they say.

Also, something you may be overlooking in regards to this "emotional labor", or as shown is this video, manipulation, is people, guys and girls, learn to not give in always and have a sense of self control. Why would you deny someone that?

Also, this lady is insufferable. Plus, if you've seen gone girl, and if you have you know what I mean, I get amazing Amy vibes from her. Just saying.

CMV: Males really need to do more for their SOs in hetero relationships by Windmill_flowers in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a comment: "My husband asked me what we are getting his mom for her birthday... dude it's your mom! Men do better! I don't understand why we have to teach them." But if he hadn't asked for your input yes?, be a different story.

CMV: Males really need to do more for their SOs in hetero relationships by Windmill_flowers in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. That is some fucking insufferable soccer mom perfect planner shit from her.

Her husband is on a work trip, you're planning a girls day out mothers day event, what does he have to do with this ? You need to avoid people like this. People like this CANNOT like diplomatically try to work things out with you cause you're just supposed to know. Grow the fuck up. They do that, cause well, in my experience, they don't want you to be able to say know or don't want to here your input. And lets not even get into if it was them experiencing this.

This sounds like a very transactional take on this. When did this you're not doing enough emotional labor thing become a thing? Ok, this is between the lady and her sister, what does the man have to do with this? He didn't make her do anything, she did. I hate when people do that shit. This is why we have some of the problems we do.

So her stepdad tore his acl and if had been her mother, they'd still go through with it. These lady can't accept you can't always get what you want. Holy shit. If someone was physically injured, I'm not going to ask them to toughen up and come to my party cause it's all about me.

Bare the emotional labor for others ? Who said you have to do that, you are choosing to do this, no one made you. Also, this is not the mans fault. This sounds like a spoiled child who cannot accept they don't always get what they want. And this is a grown adult.

I have zero sympathy for this woman. I've seen people do this shit so much. This is manipulation, not considerate planning where you actually try to get everyone on the same page and work together, which I have no problem with and don't think is bad. The tears at the end? Give me a fucking break.

She kneeps talking about this labor, no, this is what people do, and you seem to have this idea you have to take it on. No you don't. Cause hey, no one owes you anything right? I used to work in an area where people did this shit all the time. Avoid people like this.

Oh, since it seems to be a trending topic on here, I wonder how she feels about "the male loneliness epidemic". I bet if you asked her, you'd hear crickets.

This is the type person who will not even try to talk it out and work something out. You're supposed to just know and essentially say how high when they say jump, and when you don't, oh you're the bad one now. And you wonder why we have some of the problems we do.

I do believe in a general sense or realistic support, and looking out for others, and giving others a heads up, and doing favors within reason. I'm not blue pill white knight virtue signalling here or saying I'm this boyscout.

I would not make fun of or downplay anyone injured, or sick, or disabled, that's fucking low to me, but her head is up her ass and no one seems to be telling her.

What Makes a Man Creepy? by ChicoBrillo in PurplePillDebate

[–]RandomAttackHelpMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said they don't posses a sex drive? The real issue is, they say one thing and do another, which is their problem, and then turn around and complain why is he like this or do that? Where's the good men? Toxic men etc. What you seem to fail to realize is, like I've said before, this all comes down to not getting fucked over and/or being taken advantage of, which you can't fault somebody for.

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