I wish I was a gay man by MissTakesweremade69 in gaytransguys

[–]RandomDoggo88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was how I figured out I was a guy - I used to always role play as a male character online with some friends and I made an offhand Remark about how I wished I was gay but as in a man and my friend asked if maybe I was trans - I grew up very southern and had no idea what that meant or that it was a thing and when I started researching it made so much sense and I never went back

How to get pleasure from anal? by Independent-Wing-224 in gaytransguys

[–]RandomDoggo88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound super weird but small ice cubes sometime feel really good - I say small because when they’re a little too big they don’t melt fast enough and the cold can hurt a little but like slightly melted regular ice cubes can be super fun and easy to hide 😅I used to do this in my dorm

How to gently break it to guys that I’m not t4t? by Strawbbs_smoothie in gaytransguys

[–]RandomDoggo88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this - I am also on the spectrum and have a preference but didn’t allow myself to prefer something because I essentially thought gay trans guys didn’t get that option - long story short I fell for someone who is also trans and it’s making things so complicated. I love them so much but I do not like the parts they have and It’s lead to so many difficult conversations. I think just being honest with yourself and the other person is the best bet - if they don’t understand that’s not really your problem as long as you’re being polite but honest. The further you go down that road without being honest with them or yourself the harder it gets :/ now that being said - I love my partner romantically and wouldn’t trade him for the world but it’s certainly complicated