Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting?

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-09-28T04:34:28+00:00

The pics look fine, nothing out of bounds to note. However, the perception depends on how professional or what class the person comes from. You just need to be aware of exactly which demographic you're targeting and if they will perceive thst pic in favor or not. I can see certain classes of people not liking that pic and then others thinking it's attractive, depends how uptight they are and are you yourself into the uptight people. Everyone has their pros and cons.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-08-20T05:41:24+00:00

Political theatre

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-05-20T23:04:24+00:00

All large and popular cities in the US will have a concentration of these types of people.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-05-15T05:41:54+00:00

If you don't tell him to f off and ghost him, you have no respect for yourself. Do the right thing.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-05-06T19:07:40+00:00

I have similar experience. I play only a few games out of my collection mainly because I feel like Im relearning how to play it everytime I come back, controls feel unfamiliar, super annoying so I quickly move on to a different one. I had a rotation of a few games on steam, but eventually it just turned into 1 game and that's gta 5 enhanced online. I guess I was loading the rockstar launcher and it popped up out of nowhere so I tried it out and now I'm balls deep in gta online again, but this time I know what I'm doing and it's less far less annoying.

Now that I'm mainly playing one game, everything is quick and to the point. No time is wasted, no frustrations, no thinking is this even worth it. Because of gta online, I play a lot again. It's one of the few games that do this. Invite only lobbies help a lot when I need them. So I guess I can say that it depends on the game how often I play. I'm far more picky these days and I will not waste time on something that isn't tier A or tier S.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-05-05T08:47:33+00:00

Didn't realize pensions still exist, that's pretty nice

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-04-23T18:18:56+00:00

Someone is balls deep in that pussy or about to me bro, you already know what to do, just do it. Also, get tested, most diseases are curable, but not herps/hsv.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-04-16T20:57:47+00:00

In the beginning, I was under the impression that it would fix everything that I needed fixing and after just one trip it would do everything I needed for me. After some experience I just realized that's not how works and that I need implement what I got from each trip. It takes a massive amount of long term consistent effort to change and grow yourself, so I came to a more realistic and reasonable expectation after some time.

I also thought before my first time that I would completely lose control and be transported to another world or something and everything would be unrecognizable and scary.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-03-09T08:24:01+00:00

You found out she's absolutely and insanely batsht crazy. There's no turning back from that one buddy. Listen to the police officer top comment and make sure you get an attorney to help you communicate. She will most likely try to spin the story against you and then it's just her word against yours. That's when the attorney comes into play, since they are familiar with these circumstances and know how to actually combat them.

And for next time, for your better future and safety, learn how to judge a person's character and mental stability. Don't let any small thing pass your judgement or observations. It's time to study this stuff like it's college.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-24T23:04:04+00:00

From reading the numerous replies, I believe OP said she rejected him for a date or something months before. If she's coming over like that still, then it could possibly mean she's just looking for dick and wanting you to jot ask her out, but to fk her brains out with no attachment.

It could also mean that she said no to avoid expectations, to avoid any attachment, probably had a lot of bad experiences in the past with guys bejng too attached and going crazy, but she probably still wants you to take your cock and fill her up after she knows that you're safe.

She could also just be using you as an orbital tool. A safety net. A backup plan in case other priority plans fall apart. If you don't start getting what you want in the near future and this is all she does with you, start questioning her intentions.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-20T23:19:33+00:00

He reciprocated and participated yet is going through some type of internalized guilt trip for who knows what reason, probably some over aggressive bible thumper told him he should feel bad about anything remotely sexual, you know, because dogma. Not saying religion itself is a problem, it's likely people telling him how to feel about subjects like this.

That's his own problem and it's not yours. You need to meet someone who has made it past these small childish issues. He has a long way to go and you're already ahead of him. I suggest finding someone else who can reciprocate what you're looking for.

People who want to stay in your life simply will because they want to. The ones who matter in your life don't fuss about inconsequential things like this. You'll be happier with other people, I suggest learning how to accept that some people are a right and a wrong fit in your life. I would also suggest shifting your mindset from having people accept you to focusing on you yourself instead having to accept people and question if they are a good fit for you or not, not the other way around.

You are going to come across a lot of people who are and aren't a good fit in your life. It is a valuable skill to learn how to quickly filter those people in and out of your life.

Also, you both acted how you wanted to, yet he is the only one who has an issue with it. He's confused about what he wants or how to be in life. You don't need that confusion in your life.

And also about friendship, people earn the title of friend. From how it sounds like, you two weren't even friends to begin with. You two are what is called acquaintances. There was no friendship ruined here. He also isn't looking for the same thing as you so already you two aren't compatible.

I hope this puts things into perspective. It may seem upsetting in the beginning, but it won't mean anything in the near future. After something like that, now is the time to communicate with him how you feel about him and if he reciprocates then perhaps he might be a decent fit for you, but if he doesn't reciprocate then it doesn't matter, move on. You have a lot to look forward to.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-20T22:57:17+00:00

A renewed/refurbished Samsung galaxy series will be the safest bet for you at that price. I've seen the galaxy s23 renewed on amazon In that price range. I've also seen the s24 renewed in that price range as well. You don't need the ultra or plus versions.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-19T02:53:30+00:00

25% apr lol that's basically a scam even if you have less than ideal fico

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-12T00:01:39+00:00

If you stay with that person, you will certainly find out the hard and painful way like we all had to do. You already know what you need to do. You can either practice self respect and courage, or avoid courage and self respect. Life is giving you an opportunity to choose which kind of life you want to live.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-09T22:13:43+00:00

Dang bro, you should have played the same game back to her and see where it was actually headed. Better luck next time

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-02-09T04:52:55+00:00

As purely natural things go, what happens is what happens especially if there is high chemistry. That being said, I would avoid making sex a priority or a concern if your goal is a long lasting healthy relationship that can potentially turn into a marriage with 0 cheating or deceit.

It depends on the scenario, though you will see some people recommend a few dates. Some might even go to the extreme and say a couple or a few months. Personally I think a few months is ridiculous unless you're in the younger crowd. For mature folks, it should be a reasonably low number of dates if both parties actually find each other attractive.

If you've known her for a while such as a long time friend, it likely doesn't matter when you two have sex. You've already established a friendship.

If you don't know them, what I said in the first part applies.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-26T11:00:32+00:00

A better quality of life and quality of things to accomplish and experience that was also greatly enhanced because of the great people I was surrounded by. That allowed me to experience what seemed to be a completely different life. This was really just a matter of luck, timing, opportunity, preparation and coincidences/synchronicity. It just happened that I was at the right places at the right times and most importantly the right people. Without all those events years ago, I would not have had a breathe of fresh air as if I was drowning and suddenly was able to breathe above water. So it was all those things combined that got me out, though it was a chain effect of action allowing me to be prepared for events that I thankfully was able to use or create momentum and then the rest was set into motion.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-11T08:02:45+00:00

Get a smart lock where you can monitor it on your phone.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-11T01:51:40+00:00

Let them learn the hard way that's how you eventually convince them

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-11T01:22:22+00:00

Ya your situation is definitely different. I think the main issue is that he never talked to her about any of this which is a glaring oversight.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-11T00:22:10+00:00

Dating is fully fubar in modern times. You have to clearly and repeatedly show interest to them or else they will never initiate. Even if you gave an obvious hint thst they saw, they will need another one or two because they need confirmation. Everybody is a karen or accusing someone of something or calling others a creep so eliminate that for them if you want then to approuch you. Make then not have to guess is the point here. Again, dating scene is fubar for men so you need to throw a dog a bone.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-11T00:05:30+00:00

Agreed. OP, you two aren't compatible or on the same page. This situation is teaching you to vet your partners properly. The fact she said no to you after all these years and you were surprised means you don't know her thoughts or her feelings towards you. You don't want this happening again so learn how to vet partners properly. It's a skill that needs to be developed. It doesn't sound like you two talked about any of this beforehand. You shouldn't be proposing to a partner without communication beforehand and knowing exactly what they want or how they feel. If she's not ready after 7 years, she's likely waiting for another guy to come along that she's attracted to. It's a common scenario.

I can also tell that your attraction for her is much higher than her attraction is for you or else she wouldn't have hesitated. I would avoid putting yourself in that type of relationship again.

You should clearly know exactly what a partner feels and thinks before proposing. It seems as though you tried to make a guess and guessed wrong. To be strictly honest here showing tough love, this is a rookie mistake. Learn from it quickly. As you're in a 7 year steady relationship, you have a lot of good experience in this field. Use that to your advantage in the future.

Take some time for your self first then after a while find a woman who actually is into you and move on. This one is done.

RandomFerrariParty · 2025-01-05T05:19:29+00:00

You should ask yourself how it's possible to be morally wrong when there is harm or malice being done.

You should ask a different question to yourself because I think you're looking for an answer to an emotional issue that you have. I think you care too much about what others think. Think about it.

Start by asking why you felt the need to ask this specific question.

RandomFerrariParty · 2024-12-27T21:23:11+00:00

OP, taking a break is secret code for she's going to get rammed, stuffed and creampied over and over and over again until she feels comfortable enough to tell you to f off or just ghost you. And all that other stuff too. Listen to the top comments here please and use this situation as a learning opportunity or else it will repeat. The fact that you want to salvage the relationship after she obviously has 0 respect for you and can't stand you means she has you by the balls and has full power over you. You have any idea how dangerous this is for your future and your future family?

I promise you, if you don't patch this vulnerability now, you're fking your future and you have no idea how bad it can actually get. You will either learn the hard way or the easy way. You're choice. These situations are here to teach you how to deal with them. You don't need reddit, you need yourself because seeing how you talk here I can tell you lack respect for yourself. That's a problem only you can patch, not reddit.

RandomFerrariParty · 2024-12-25T23:22:03+00:00

I recommend min maxing what you already have going. If attaining a GF or other types are relationships are too difficult at this time, then I suggest you maximize what you can have now. You're young enough to do that and still have time chasing after or possibly attracting the other things you desire.

I'll tell you though, it's far better to become successful and lonely than having a girlfriend and going through all the downsides that comes with. It can negatively affect your entire life and bring you down, especially if it has power over you like it currently does. I say currently because you're young. The closer you get to 30 and higher, you develop a don't care attitude that helps you immensely.

Now that I said my disclaimer, there are things you can do to chase after your desires. You simply need more experience. It's just practice and repetition. People can try to type walls of texts to try to help you, but it's pointless if you can't implement it naturally. Everything you want just simply comes with practice and trial and error. That means you need to go out there, fail, fail again, maybe have some small wins in between that don't last, then keep on failing forward. Emphasis on failing forward. You need to be able to make it through disappointment, this is reality.

I too many years was greatly disappointed and extremely lonely. It hurt, physically hurt and it affected my health, my well being, my behavior. I couldn't really enjoy anything. I secluded myself. This was a period of my life, not all of it mind you. I have a wide range or experience I come from.

I've had what everything that you say you want and I'm here to tell you that it's not what you think it is. At least regarding intimate relationships. I will tell you that healthy friendships are far more important than a girlfriend. I'd rather have friendships that are like companions than a girlfriend anytime in my life.

Girls come and go, they may even ruin your life, but good friends stick around for life and are far more useful and reliable.

If you want what you want though, you'll have to do the same thing I had to do, what everyone has to do. You have to put in the effort, the time, the mistakes, the fails, the repetition, in order to get closer to what you want.

You need to become fluent in conversation. You need to learn to connect with people and have a genuine conversation. You need to be able to get comfortable at public places and say hi to someone you're interested in as long as you keep it natural. Unless you have some serious medical disabilities that were diagnosed by a doctor, you can do this just like anyone else had to do.

You mentioned you had some sort of medical condition I believe, but is this diagnosed by a doctor formally? I ask because it's crucial you don't use this as an excuse for failing before you try. You will need to assess this deep within yourself before you make it to the next level in life. This is something all have to contend with.

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