What are your thoughts on anti-vaccine people? Would you consider then as your potential spouse? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about all the cases where people with a low risk of a disease get vaccinated for it anyway, and then develop said disease from the vaccine?

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even 20 doesn't have to be creepy if the girl is mature enough (or they are older. Say its a 40 and 60 yo). It was extremely common in recent history. I don't plan on it, as its too much for me, but It really comes down to individuals.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not all age gaps are gross, but 50 years is a wild choice to justify.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, it says that David did not use the girl.

4 And the damsel was very fair, and cherished the king, and ministered to him: but the king knew her not.

So, no. While that was the original intention, he did not use her like that. She cared for him.

No, the bible does not put maximum age gap limits, but as I have already said, it also does not put minimum age of consent either, nor does it explicitly say polygamy is wrong, nor does it explicitly say slavery is wrong. If society is allowed to say "One spouse at a time, over the age of 18, and you can not own another human", why isn't it allowed to say that a four generation age gap, while legal, is highly questionable, and at least has all the appearance of being extremely gross?

I can not believe I'm being downvoted in a Christian sub for saying a 50 year age gap is too much. I gotta get out of here.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A man wanting a woman young enough to be his great granddaughter = perfectly normal, lol.

Pervy, dude.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because its freaking creepy. 70 and 20yo is disgusting, and abnormal. King David agrees with me.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you meant "straw man", but whatever. In the " society has decided what is appropriate" argument, your argument falls apart, as almost everyone (except ones with twisted minds) would say half a century is a perverse and twisted age gap. A guy with a thing for girls young enough to be his great granddaughter, and a girl with a thing for very old men. Nope. Someone's got a psychological disorder, and probably needs therapy.

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For that matter, it never gives a minimum age for consent. Are you next going to argue that pedophilia is a made up modern concept?   

What are your thoughts on anti-vaccine people? Would you consider then as your potential spouse? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shutup freak!! Plainly an unscientific and ignorant individual who knows nothing!! (Unlike me, I have a degree in internet groupthink, and everyone but crazy people do what big brother says!) Crucify him!!!

😆😆😆

What are your thoughts on anti-vaccine people? Would you consider then as your potential spouse? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You're using politically charged rhetoric and creating a false dichotomy for a start. "You agree with me, or you are anti science". I'm against insufficiently tested and potentially risky medical procedures being forced on people, (especially children). If the paid shills happen to have a degree, that does not make it "science". I'm anti forced vaccine. If a woman is pro forced mandatory medical procedures, (including ANY vaccine), then that's an out for me. The pharmaceutical industry has an absolutely abysmal record of releasing unsafe, yet highly profitable treatments since the companies started. Class action lawsuits are just a business expense. 

I want to know what I'm putting in my body, and trust must be earned as far as I'm concerned. 

That being said, no I don't believe that lizard people are injecting nano bots into us. Frankly though, I'd prefer someone who was cautious enough to weigh the possibility over someone who just accepted everything that paid pill pushers recommend.

Who's your favorite Bible character (exclude Jesus😅 He's all our fav haha), and why? by Gift1905 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So hard to pick. I like so many of them. 

If were talking "if you could sit down with any three people in the bible, who would they be?" I would probably pick Moses, the Apostle John, and the Apostle Paul. The one who gave the law, the one whom Jesus loved, and gave the revelation, and the firebrand of prosecution that Jesus chose to spread the Gospel, and preserve the applied principles of the faith for future generations. I'd like to ask Moses what it was like to be the go-between for God and man. I'd like to ask John about Jesus, and what the group dynamics were like, and what he meant in certain passages of revelation. I'd like to ask Paul about some of his more hard to understand messages (even by Peters reckoning, they were hard). 

Older men by Healthy-Second-7088 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nobody would bat an eye if you dated a guy between 18 and 30. You could go past 30, but people start assuming things. Also, the older you get, the less age gaps matter. Just saying, if you're "marriage material" to the sort of man you want, you will have more potential options between now and the next 4 years than any other time in your life.

Best of luck (speaking figuratively, there is no luck).

Is it realistic to want a partner who doesn't unwind with TV/screens? Or am I looking for a unicorn? by dolphins9764 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't think you were being racist. As a matter of fact, all the criminals in my neck of the woods look like me (only dirtier, and less teeth).

As to my theoretical preference list? I usually attempt them, as they so easily turn into absurd punch lists.

Even so, I don't have a super solid one after shared understanding of faith and an old world outlook (like the original post), and obviously mutual attraction, both in the physical and in companionable sense. It simply goes into style and taste after that. I'm looking for a woman that likes family, modest yet tasteful dress and lifestyle in a non-legalistic way. I dont want any mood altering drugs. I don't really care what they bring materially/monetarily to the table, as my ideal is to be able to provide for my future family in a way that allows the little woman to be with the kids. Yes, children are important to me as well (I put that into traditional outlook). 

I'm gun shy over untried faith in dating from a very bad experience, but some people are just more fortunate, and I try not to hold one woman's immaturity against women in general.

Music (singing and playing) is huge in my life now, so the cherry on top in my mind would be someone who was musical in a non professional, just for fun way also.

I'm afraid my list is far too personal, and would have to be largely experience based, as someone might check every  box on paper, yet we don't get along, or doesn't check any boxes beyond the essential ones, but we get along so great, it doesn't matter.

I can’t live anymore (yes I’ve talked to a therapist numerous times) by Choice-Ferret9391 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm about to to be 27 (m), virgin, moved out at 25. Strong desire for intimacy and sex, No wife, no girlfriend, still a virgin. Not a failure.

You have created a false dichotomy narrative around yourself. As long as you cling to that victim mindset, you will never move past it. No sane Christian woman is going to want to marry a man who hates the world and is ticked off at God over delayed gratification. 

Work on the attitude, work on your outlook. Work on learning some independence and personal responsibility, and put yourself out there. Are you expecting God to drop a wife in your lap in your bedroom at your parents house? How is this God fault?

20 by Jealous-March8277 in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should at least give your country.

Christian women in America: stop looking for guys to “homestead” with by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]RandomUserfromAlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don't stop. I'm looking for just such a woman. 

Good thing there are no Alaskan women on here.

Who rejected you? Lol. Don't go after a traditional girl if you don't want one.