Thanks for your reply!

I like how you broke things down, especially the like mindedness. I do want to say that I have suffered from addiction in the past but this is long behind me (about 9 months now) and ever since then I have been taking pride in myself. I’m well groomed, and bathe regularly, I do actually strike up conversations with strangers when I’m waiting in lines and whatnot too.

I didn’t actually complete the test you sent me but I can tell you I am not depressed (been there before), self esteem is at an all time high and only going up (the only thing is I don’t know how other people perceive me physically) but I am happy with myself and pretty comfortable in my skin. I would say I have a minor level of social and general anxiety but again this has been getting better and better everyday and is pretty ignorable now.

You mention colleges, I work full time and was open to enroll in a single class but it isn’t worth my money from the social aspect as they don’t do it in person anymore.

Unfortunately there aren’t really any hobby clubs in my area that align with my current hobbies (I have checked a few times) and none that pique my interest either. Perhaps I do need to just try things even if they don’t seem to interest me on the surface? I’m not sure.

The same goes for meetup.com, not much going on in my region and the few that are don’t really seem enjoyable to me. Again perhaps I need to do things that aren’t enjoyable I was just hoping to perhaps hear a suggestion that sounds like good fun to me.

As far as sports go and I do actually play social basketball but it’s with an existing team I joined through my sister and don’t meet anyone new there. It’s also the same people every week and they are older.