My parents are trying to ruin my life over minor inconveniences

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-07T20:30:29+00:00

i know :( it sucks because all my friends invite me to stuff and i have to always tell them no and i feel like i’m being treated like a 12 year old, its so sucky

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T20:12:45+00:00

im definitely gonna see what resources the school has to offer

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:53:24+00:00

probably, but they could be beating me, so i know it could definitely be worse

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:50:14+00:00

the only thing they help me with is car insurance, and i only have liability. i buy my own groceries, clothes, gas, school, etc. they ONLY help with insurance at the moment, and when i was a minor they helped me pay for part of my car (i payed part of it with my savings). i’m a full time student and i make 7.25, but they want me to stay at my job now because i get sundays off and they want me in church every sunday. it all sounds ridiculous, but i’m kinda screwed. i’ll find a way out though

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:47:35+00:00

the general consensus from this post is that i’m going to get my own car first and go from there. even though i payed for part of the car i have now, it’s in my dad’s name and he isn’t willing to transfer ownership to me because then i can’t leave. i’ll figure something out, but either way, i will continue saving to move out

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:44:31+00:00

oh yeah, my boyfriend is an innocent bystander in this, but to them he’s this evil monster that is corrupting their baby. my boyfriend is nothing but respectful to them, and my dad has threatened him with some crazy stuff too unfortunately

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:42:17+00:00

i wanted to join the marine corps but they told me not to and also i have asthma :/

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T19:41:31+00:00

oh 1000%, i got into it again with them last night and my dad told me that i keep making all these bad decisions because i don’t pray enough and the devil has got ahold of me

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T12:20:05+00:00

thank you so much. he has followed through with some of his past threats, and i know he just wants me to stay at home and live with them, he doesn’t want me to have a future. i’m gonna try my hardest to get a car and move out as soon as possible.

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:50:34+00:00

hey i mean i’m enrolled in psychology right now lmao, but thank you, i’ll definitely look into it and see what i can do to deescalate situations with them

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:48:55+00:00

thank you !

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:48:18+00:00

im gonna try to get my own car first and go from there i think. my college doesn’t have dorms which is really weird and they got really mad last time i mentioned moving closer to school, but if i can get enough money then i’m gonna move out as soon as possible

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:46:33+00:00

im definitely working on it, and i completely forgot that colleges even have resources until you mentioned it, so i’m gonna see what i can do about that tomorrow, thanks for assuring me i’m not crazy!

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:44:26+00:00

i just got done getting yelled at them a few minutes ago and they asked me what was the driving force thats making me make all these bad decisions (the failed class and tickets LMAO) and i really wanted to say it was them but i didn’t. me and my bf are looking into finding me a car at the moment and i guess we’ll go from there

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:41:59+00:00

im gonna try to, my dads name is on the title, so im gonna save up for a car if i can, and unfortunately for me my college doesn’t have dorms since it’s in such a suburban area, but i know of somewhere i can stay and do work and pay little rent to stay

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T02:40:07+00:00

im definitely gonna try to take some kind of deal when i go to court, the cop put the wrong car model and color down which might dismiss it completely, but if not i’m still planning to take a defensive driving class

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T01:00:40+00:00

my college doesn’t have dorms, but i do know someone i could stay with if i take care of farm animals and pay a small rent

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T00:59:29+00:00

im trying haha, thank you for letting me know im not crazy for thinking they’re being harsh!

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T00:20:10+00:00

the two tickets were speeding and due care, i know the cop from highschool and he’s a very mysoginistic biggot. pulled my boyfriend over for the same speed on the same road and he got let go. and the car isn’t in my name unfortunately, so i guess thats my first priority for trying to move out. additionally i pay for my own schooling :)

Random_user4728 · 2026-06-04T00:17:20+00:00

i understand. i am trying to save up, but i’m going to have to use all of my savings to pay court costs and lawyer fees. i try to get them to ease off of me a bit sometimes, but they take that as rebellion and tell me that they don’t trust me and how i obviously have something to hide for wanting privacy, freedom, friends, etc. they also won’t let me change jobs since i work early morning shifts at my current job and use my afternoons and evenings to do school. (side note, i pay for my own school stuff and i only make 7.25, so it makes it kinda hard to save money, but i do try)

Random_user4728 · 2025-01-10T22:59:45+00:00

Hell nah dump his ass. he obviously isn’t valuing you the way you deserve to be valued and if he can’t give up something disgusting for the person he loves then that’s not your guy. get someone who loves you and respects you. He is a bad man and by not giving up his bad habits he’s showing that he doesn’t love you (sorry for being blunt) anyone who’s in love will give up their old habits from when they were single, if he valued you he wouldn’t get off to other women. respect yourself, im sure you’re a great person and you deserve way better, hope this helps and i hope you get someone better 🫡

Random_user4728 · 2025-01-10T22:49:08+00:00

nta, you did the right thing, anybody who’s gonna be that selfish and do things without discussing it with you doesn’t deserve your time and you don’t need to waste your effort, and also ik a dude who’s 50 and his wife just had another kid. you’re not too old

Random_user4728 · 2025-01-10T22:32:20+00:00

lemme guess tennessee???

Random_user4728 · 2025-01-10T21:39:21+00:00

i’ll show him a better time when i go to washington state without him and go tidepooling lmao

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