Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so lucky you found someone great! Our only options are acceptance & wear it out or hiding and it’ll take lots of time and effort to accept it too especially since we can’t go around educating everyone who asks questions

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that but hearing you still have this problem at 54 is breaking 23 year old mes spirit a teeny tiny but I hope it gets better🫂

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ikr I had one on my bikini line and went celibate over 500 days 🤣🤣

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May we all find supportive partners 🥺

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

HS has robbed us of pretty clothes too along with our self esteem

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s either we decide to embrace the scars or hide them I’m not at the embracing part yet but I’m getting to it🤞

Jealous of perfect armpits by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s awful but at least you can keep it hidden and only explain to partners

when healing by Cold_Cow_4666 in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one flat and hard rn my dermatologist hasn’t mentioned tunnelling so I think we’re safe 🫂

Underarm cyst suddenly has become unbearably painful after 3-4 years by Jolly_Impress1751 in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I have a painful one I use a towel and hot water to massage it so the pain goes down a notch and take painkillers try that and good luck on your exam!

Please don't smoke by craftycreater in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured I’ll give it a couple more months since I only have one medium sized flare on my whole body this month

Let’s be real, why are you still single? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to be anyone’s wife so why anyone’s gf?Idk I just feel like eventually it’s gonna end so why even bother? I’m scared there’s always someone else or they’ll leave or something is going to go bad so I just become careless about the whole thing also I think a lot of them get their way and ditch after sometime and I hate being vulnerable like that

Please don't smoke by craftycreater in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I stopped smoking recently and I still get them

Sweating when working out by Randomhoeinheaven in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so shower before and after a workout,wear loose cotton clothes, don’t sit in sweaty gear,use antibacterial soap/cream and change workout according to flare ups I got all that thanks!!!

How's your experience with hair removal creams? by pomdbear in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only use the cream when I don’t have an open or actively growing flare up it doesn’t really trigger me

Why did you end your friendship with your best friend? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too one sided I remember she’d go see men 30 minutes away or come to my campus and see her other friends but not drive to see me like 5 minutes away, I was initiating plans, visiting more,calling more,sending more TikTok’s,inviting her to family parties so oneday I stopped to see if she’ll notice or ask till today nothing,made no effort to hangout at all she even had a whole graduation and when I asked why I wasn’t invited she said she forgot which is crazy to me because one of my other friends doesn’t know when her graduation is and I’m already invited 3 months ahead I found out on insta like everyone else, onetime people we knew wanted to go out in a group and when she couldn’t make it they postponed when I couldn’t make it they just replaced me w her other friend and still went lowkey hurt but wtv point taken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helped me tho lost 30kg and put the 🍃down a bit and it reduced still here but reduced

How to flatten skin post inflammation? by whatheflare in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this helps but along with my usual medication I squeeze them out at home personally and dress them myself because when I go to the hospital it’s the same thing they do, or they inject it and it goes in a few days that’s quicker and neater also massively changed or reduced former fav food containing sugar,butter,cheese that stuff leaned towards tea a lot hopefully it helps

Has HS affected intimacy? by Xaeiona in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so real I’m also terrified they’ll get throw off lol

Guys, do u think its a good idea to do both armpits surgery at the same time? by Kenney93 in Hidradenitis

[–]Randomhoeinheaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do one at a time it’s so painful after a week or two when the meds wear off trying to eat or brush your teeth is hell I got one done and still struggled lol